#103 Human Sexual Evolution: Leaving Orgasms Behind to Explore Orgasmic Experience with Diana Richardson

#103 Human Sexual Evolution: Leaving Orgasms Behind to Explore Orgasmic Experience with Diana Richardson

#103 Human Sexual Evolution: Leaving Orgasms Behind to Explore Orgasmic Experience with Diana Richardson
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We're taking a deep, practical dive into developing what I call the intimacy and experiential dimensions of your sexuality and your experience of sex. This is primarily relevant for people who are interested in relationships, or they're already in relationships. However, as usual, I think this is all great stuff for everyone to learn in preparation. There are some great takeaways on how you may be looking at and approaching sex in a way that really limits your experience of it, and the experience of your partners with it also.

We'll be touching on Tantra as that is the origin of todays guest's work. But also moving way beyond that, as she has moved beyond traditional Tantra herself to explore the orgasmic experience. We're fundamentally getting pass simply having an orgasm to a more profound and involved experience.

If you don't know much about Tantra, it's probably a good idea to check out some of our previous episodes on Tantra. So you can check out episode 73, which was Demystifying Tantric Sex and Tantra (with Mark Michaels & Patricia Johnson), and then come back here to get the more advanced session.

Today's guest is Diana Richardson. She's spent most of her life studying Tantra, what she sees as the union of sex and meditation. She started teaching to couples in 1993 - so that's 22 years ago, over two decades of experience - and her first book was published in 1999. Now if you check out amazon.com, you'll see that she's a prolific writer on Tantra, Tantric sex, and human sexuality. She has seven books and all of them pretty much have five star ratings across the board. So her work is really appreciated.

She leads seminars around the world, and she does this with a direct, practical approach to teaching sex and meditation so people, in particular couples, can evolve their sexuality, their love, their intimacy, and their experience of orgasms.

As you know, we love practical stuff on this show. It's a great pleasure to have Diana with us.

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Specifically, in this episode you'll learn about:

  • Quote from one of Diana’s books: "Fifty years of sex is equal to fifteen minutes of orgasm." Is that true? (06:12)
  • Are men and women too focused and goal-oriented on the brief orgasmic experience? (07:10)
  • The current drive towards goal-oriented sex (09:38)
  • Transitioning from being goal- or technique-oriented in sex to other approaches (12:28)
  • Breaking down the 'high' or addiction to orgasm in order to experience sex on a deeper level (20:10)
  • Orgasm preferences and patterns that may negatively affect your sexual experiences (23:20)
  • Young people have a better ability of letting go of societal orgasmic conditioning (25:46)
  • Bypassing the orgasm in Tantra to contain energy and being into sex to the point of having an orgasmic experience, which is very different to an orgasm (27:57)
  • The relevance of kegel exercises for men (29:35)
  • Understanding the orgasmic experience (31:35)
  • Practical steps towards practicing Tantra, and the male positive pole (37:17)
  • Becoming more conscious of our bodies - "Presence and awareness are more important than positions" (42:35)
  • The foundation of Diana's Tantra (45:15)
  • Diana's Tantra retreats and what's involved (47:38)
  • Explaining the 'slow sex' and 'love keys' concepts (48:36)
  • Approaching a woman about the idea of opening up to sexual exploration as apposed to conventional sex (52:35)
  • Evolving over time once people start their Tantra journey (54:20)
  • The sexual dimension behind fights and conflicts: sexual misunderstanding (55:10)
  • A woman's sexual energy is raised through her breast, not her clitoris (55:45)
  • Men have a tendency to return to Tantra rather than women due to the value they find in making love in another way (59:37)
  • A woman may feel a man is not interested, or loves her, when he does not orgasm (1:01:20)
  • The difference between a horny vagina and one that welcomes you (1:02:40)
  • The best ways to connect with Diana to learn more about her and her work (1:06:16)
  • Recommendations for advice in this area (1:06:35)
  • Top recommendations for guys wanting to explore Tantra (1:07:37)

Items Mentioned in this Episode include:

Books, Courses and Training from Diana Richardson

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