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Working with Nick was the best experience of my life. He has a one of a kind ability to help facilitate your own self discovery. I have tried so many different things to try and meet woman. Spent more money than I would ever admit in search of answers. All feel short until I meet Nick. The other traditional dating advice has it all wrong. It is a load of crap that barely scratches the surface of what the true issue is. Nick's work on the other hand not only improves your romantic life, but your life as a whole. He does not offer a quick fix. In fact the experience was one of the hardest experiences of my life. He finds a way to balance unquestionable support with tough love when you need it. He uncovers the person you are meant to be no matter what that person looks like. He helps you realize that the man you were meant to be is the sexiest, most confident, power man in any situation as long as you have the courage to be him. Once you do that, finding a truly special partner is an inevitably. I am only scratching the surface of the experience I had.

It hard to believe that the experience does not end there. He is willing to support you as long as he is able after the workshop experience. We all falter and having his support is a resource that I dough any other person would give. He truly cares about every man he helps.

No words in the English language can express how much I recommend this experience.

April 2014 Coaching Weekend

A little background: though I wasn’t have major problems meeting women or relating with women. I wanted to have the ability to meet women anywhere, any place and any time. I was meeting women online as well as through friends and social events, however I would see women I was interested in when I was out in a bar, restaurant , lounge or store and wouldn’t approach. Now I am not a big PUA community guy. I have read a few articles and posts here and there, however most of them turned me off as they were based more on tricks and gimmicks. I was looking for someone more authentic and even more importantly someone who love and respected women as opposed to seeing them as targets. I knew about Nick through some of the other Social man programs and decided to reach out to him.



Before I signed up for the weekend I had a conversation with Nick going over why I wanted to do the program, what my current situation with women was and what I was hoping to get out of the weekend. After a 30 minute or so conversation with Nick I could tell he was completely authentic and more importantly he was very passionate about seeing his clients succeed.
The weekend was simply amazing. Over the weekend from what I can remember Nick never approached a single woman. I am making a point of this because Nick spent all of his time watching and guiding his students. Now I know some of you are thinking he should be approaching women left and right to prove his advice works. During the days he was teaching us different skills he would do a demonstration with the female coaches and it was very apparent by watching his interactions with the female coaches he is great at attracting women.


If you are looking for a program that teaches you lines, gimmicks, tricks or other BS to manipulate or trick women into bed with you then this is not the program for you. However if you are looking for a program that will improve how you feel about yourself, improve your connections with men and women, deepen your sexual desires and learn to freely express them to women and finally learn how to control and work with the anxious feelings you have when you approach a woman then this is the program for you. Nick keeps the program very simple and sticks to the basic which has you out of your head and more into action. Action is where you get results!



My fellow students Josh and Victor-you guys rock. It’s amazing to see such young guys looking to improve yourselves in such an authentic manner. You guys are just scratching the surface of this journey and I am super excited for you. You are both great powerful men-remember women are begging for men like you!!!



Lastly, a special thanks to all the coaches. I really can’t express enough how grateful I am for each and every one of you-you are all simply amazing people. Every single coach has such a passion for helping the students succeed and it starts from the top with Nick. Nick (you are the most humble bad ass I know and an awesome teacher who knows exactly what adjustments each individual needs), Christina (your willingness to go deep and take on the energy of the men is simply amazing), Tess (You are so incredibly supportive of all the men and it is contagious) and Matt, Danny, and Sarah (Your passion for helping the students is awesome).



Nick made it a point to be honest in our reviews and to express any areas the program needed improvement. I honestly felt the program was well structured as well as flexible enough to accommodate each student’s needs. If I were to nitpick I would say one thing that might add even more juice would be in addition to the pre weekend call with Nick a 15-20minute call with Christina prior to the weekend would be a bonus.



I walked into the weekend meeting other clients and coaches and walked out with friends and family. Love you guys!!!


Michael S

On Thursday night Nick asked us what we wanted to get out of the weekend, I answered something along the lines of "learning how to talk to girls and have fun". And Nick wasn't fully satisfied with that answer and asked me to think some more on it. Deep down I did have a sense of what I truly wanted but I was unsure of how to vocalize it. But even that was far exceeded by my experience. I was aware that I had some of the skills and knowledge that would be required to do this, just no real idea how to apply them. Not only did I learn to apply them, I learned I already knew more than I thought I did. And anything I did not know or struggled with was met with such great advice and support, from the coaches and other guys alike, it turned the previously insurmountable to the insignificant.

Before the weekend I had never hit on a girl, I was too afraid of saying the wrong thing or getting a negative reaction. Knowing that it would turn the rest of my night to shit because I would over analyze the whole thing and take it all personally. Nick and the other coaches helped me to diffuse this method of thinking by showing me what I already knew how to do, and filling in the few gaps in knowledge that I did have(You know more than you think you do I promise you this). If you trust in what these coaches tell you you will succeed. They won't teach you what words to say, they will teach you how to have a conversation, how to find a real connection. They show you how to be you right away not after knowing someone for some time, which is scary but so rewarding. They will show you how to show intent with the girls that you truly are interested in. How to recognize when a girl is into you, some things that I though were indicators of disinterest turned out to be the reverse. And one of the most important things I learned is that what ever happens it's more about what's going on with them then it is about you. All of these things have given me a confidence I have never known before.

Prior to the weekend I would get anxiety all the time, at work in my personal life and especially when talking to women I was attracted to. The anxiety was so bad that at times my throat would even close off somewhat and it would get hard to speak and even breath at times (mainly if I was trying to show interest). During the weekend we were taught how to embrace this anxiety and us it to our advantage, and it is a powerful thing. I still get anxiety at this point, but now I enjoy it, I chase it because it means there's something worth investigating. Anxiety no longer overwhelms me and as a result has improved every aspect of my life.

And the truth is Nick really does care, you can see him light up when something finally clicks for you or when you're doing well. He wants you to succeed, he wants you become a better you. I had some pretty intense experiences inside the club in New York, things I had never done before, things I won't broadcast over the internet. But that isn't the highlight of my time in New York, the highlight was meeting Nick, Christina, Tess, Matt, Danny, Sarah, and my fellow students Victor and Michael. Genuine people who love to help others grow. It's hard to believe that one can change so much in just 4 days, but with the help of amazing people such as these it was a breeze. Cannot wait to see you all again!

This class is not for everyone, you need to be ready for a change. Just going to the class will not fix your life, you will need to work during and afterwards. But it is so worth it, I thought the price was a lot of money before the weekend, now knowing what I gained from this weekend I would have gladly paid double or even triple. If you're ready to make the change then start the process of contacting Sparks Of Attraction today. If you're not ready figure out what you need to do to become ready.

Nick, Christina, Tess, Matt, Danny, Sarah, Victor, and Michael much love from Canada!

Josh

This program is fantastic because it teaches you how to be yourself more fully around women. There's no lying or manipulating involved. The results that the weekend has given me around women and just people in general has completely transformed my life in two weeks.

Nick and the other coaches push you playfully from night one to approach groups of people and women I never would have approached and hang in conversations that I would never normally hang in, and the results were amazing.

It's legitimately fun to be going out with these guys and learning from them. Nick's outlook on women and social interaction that he presents throughout the weekend and embodies within himself is contagious, magnetic, and impossible not to adopt once you've taken it on and tried it in social settings. Simply put, it's the truth.

As somebody who has suffered from social anxiety for most of my life (I didn't even mention that to the instructors during the weekend because it is so embarrassing for me), this weekend opened my eyes to a world where there is literally no need for this condition. The simple prescriptions Nick gives seem TOO simple to accomplish all of this, but the results are absurdly apparent when you practice them in daily life. People are reacting to me so differently and wonderfully that I feel like an entirely different person.

I would highly recommend putting aside a weekend to work on something that will truly change your life for the better.

After having the pleasure of going through Nick’s weekend program, I was able to see my progress instantly. I could write pages worth of gratitude and appreciation for Nick’s services but I’ll do my best to keep it short and sweet. Sparks of Attraction Lifetime coaching was far and beyond anything I could of asked for.

I first happened to come across Nick and Christian through a couple of youtube videos. Reason being was that I had not been having the success with women that I knew I was capable of. I had always done ok, but not nearly where I wanted to be. Not only that, but I knew there was a component in my life that was missing. I didn’t necessarily know what that void was, but I knew that talking to Nick and entering his program would certainly help. If not there, than in a multitude of other aspects in my life.

Throughout the weekend, Nick was able to pickup our flaws immediately and give us feedback on how to improve. He really narrows it down to the point so that: a) you’re not overwhelmed with things to think about and b) you know the things you really need to work on. I found Nick constantly pushing the other student and I to go outside our comfort zones, which is exactly what you need to get the most out of his program. Nick prides himself on his 100% success rate and you really get a sense of this in the way that he carries out his business.

Myself personally, I found exactly the void I was missing in my life. I leave the weekend feeling great and I know everything that I need to work on in order to better myself! What tops it all off is, even after his program, Nick dedicates himself to making time out for each and every client. If you ever need any advice or someone to talk to, he will push everything aside and make time for you. I can easily say with the utmost confidence that should you go with Nick’s program, it will change your life for the better!

Nick Sparks really is the man, can’t say enough!

I read "The Game" a couple years ago and was initially very turned off by it; the whole psychological trickery involved seemed too complicated, too devious, too unnatural, and too uncomfortable. However, lacking any better alternatives at the time, I investigated the online PUA world and first found a coach who utilized similar techniques as the main characters in The Game. I went to Orlando for a 3 day weekend bootcamp that involved similar activities found in Nick's program, and I thought I did relatively well considering I had never cold approached like that before. However, once the bootcamp was over the umbilical cord was cut and I was left to my own devices. The one and only night I went out to try to build upon the things I learned at the bootcamp, I was stuck back at approaching.

After that bootcamp I missed 3-4 golden opportunities with very attractive women because I never felt comfortable around girls I'm really attracted to. This was extremely frustrating to say the least, and after the last missed opportunity I took back to the web where I found Nick.

I never believed in destiny until I met Nick. I also always believed that there isn't a single "soul mate" out there for me, that I am compatible with many, many women across all backgrounds and ethnicities. After my weekend with Nick I now know beyond the shadow of a doubt that my destiny is to make connections with as many people out there in the world, both women and men. What I liked most about Nick in my initial conversation with him was that he stated the end goal is not to simply be able to attract women to you and to have fulfilling relationships with them, but to have fulfilling (non-sexual) relationships with men, which naturally extends into improved relationships in all areas of life, including friends, jobs, extended family, etc.

Thursday night we met briefly at a neighborhood bar and grill where Nick laid down the first set of basic steps. In retrospect it is amazing how simple and confidence-building approaching can be when you follow three basic steps. Everything else comes from the inside, from your own desire toward the girls you approach, and if you're like me then you're not used to feeling this desire and focusing it on an attractive girl. This was the biggest part missing from my first night, yet--amazingly--I still yielded extremely positive results. I approached close to ten girls or groups of girls without a single negative response (at least not that I recall). I felt like I was well on my way to becoming a master of attraction after such initial success.

Friday we spent classroom time with a couple lovely female assistants where we practiced our approach and body language. I felt surprisingly nervous with the female assistant who was obviously not going to judge me in any way and was perfectly inviting to my touch. I think the feeling of being on stage in front of Nick and my fellow students turned up the pressure more than I expected. I may as well have been performing on Saturday Night Live! However I got through it, Nick made careful, calculated observations with corresponding feedback, and I felt relieved to have made it through. After a brief field exercise we all headed back to our pads for rest before the night game.

Friday night was entirely different from Thursday night in terms of results, the vibe of the crowd, etc. I had hoped it would be better than Thursday night and that I would simply maintain a linear, upward trajectory of my progress. Friday night was tough, I won't lie. I approached more girls, around 12-15, but received very little (perceived!) positive feedback. In retrospect, Friday night was EXACTLY what I needed at the time in order to set up Saturday night.

Sexy Saturday. OH, Sexy Saturday.... The day was spent with more classroom instruction, feedback, and exercises followed by another brief field exercise. One particular exercise was absolutely mind blowing. Nick had the best tactic for building up my inner desire and sexuality and how to focus it on his drop-dead gorgeous assistant. *sigh* my heart flutters again now just thinking back on it. Yesterday seems so long ago! After the field exercise we all rested up in preparation for night game but all I could do was toss and turn in bed because my chest would not stop thumping.

Saturday night was without doubt the best night of my life. Bar none. We met up at the usual neighborhood bar for prepare talk before heading out on the town once more. I took every opportunity to warm myself up outside on the street, talking to almost every girl I passed. We ran into a bachelorette party that was extremely flirtatious off the bat and I felt my sexual desire build as I watched Nick cross off the first item on the bachelorette list by whispering "sweet nothing's" in the ear of the bachelorette. She lit up like a Christmas tree, putting her hand to her mouth and slapping Nick's shoulder as he continued to pour his magic elixir down her ear, yet she could not turn away. Next item on the list was for a hot guy to take his shirt off, and I tore mine off without hesitation. The beads I was awarded as a result came in handy the rest of the night as a conversation piece.

I started to catch fire before we ever even made it into the first bar. Once inside I took the wise step of joining my wingman in conversation with a set of 3 girls. I spoke with a girl who I had zero attraction to for ten minutes, but I still practiced the things Nick taught me, and all it did was continue to boost my sexual desire. I found myself stuck talking to a gorgeous Puerto Rican girl at the back of the bar and halfway into the conversation it hit me that I was very attracted to her. I got out of my head, I started feeling her sexual energy as she responded to mine and it was a feeling I will never forget and will become motivation for all future approaches.

On the way to the next bar I chatted with a gorgeous blond about to cross the street and offered her a piggy back ride. As fate would have it, I would become acquainted with her later on in the night (she happened to be a friend of a friend of Nick's). I pulled out a basketball move on a gorgeous, tall blond and got applause from a group of guys following close behind, as well as bringing excitement and laughter to the blond. I felt indestructible, and all I wanted was to talk to girls and be close to them and feel them respond to my sexual desire.

At the next bar Nick directed me to go talk to a group of 4 attractive girls at the end of the bar. I walked over without hesitation but as I approached, the last girl was taking a seat at the table with the others. I pusses out, intimidated by the level of intimacy the table created for the group, and I headed down the stairs across from the table. I don't recall what went on downstairs, but when I resurfaced I made a beeline for the most attractive girl in the group and plopped myself down right next to her. A Bostonian, known to be ball busters. She loved my presence but better yet, I loved HER presence and I let her FEEL it.

At the expense of saving this dialogue from becoming a novel, I'll stop here and just add that I probably made 25 approaches last night, with a couple make outs. Stuff I never in my wildest dreams thought I could do in NYC, or anywhere else for that matter. Stop making excuses and go put yourself out there, you were meant to do it!

Nick did not teach me anything, instead, he REMINDS me of what I own, my power and my strength from within.

A lot of the preparation work is self-care, where I learned how to observe my own emotions, and take care of the emotional hurricanes inside me. My brain often labels my power as "bad feelings". The self-care work takes care of myself, making sure I'm getting enough rest and stuff.

I came to understand that the most attractive trait I have is my personality. Nick’s method embraces the nervousness and fear, so I can show my personality to the people around me.

Nick reminds me of what is sexy. It is slow and calm, cool and collected. Embracing silence and waiting three seconds before you talk just upgrades me to a new level of sexy being. I don’t need to impress her by acting like a clown, instead just stay engaged and lead her to talk more. This is the biggest difference I felt.

There are many seduction materials out there, but Nick can bring about a unique emotional experience that changes the fundamentals of you, so you feel alive.

Going to a coaching event you never really know what to expect. Having spoken to Nick on the phone during the intake and selection process, I was impressed by his candor and demeanor, but that really did not prepare me for what I would experience during the live training. What I will say is that this training will change you on a fundamental level IF you are in the right head and heart space for it.

This is not traditional PUA training based on coming up with lines to say or "getting" girls (which, frankly, wasn't what I was looking for). This training is based on human connection and getting the fuck out of your own way (more on this later). I decided on this program because I needed a catalyst. I knew I needed that push to get me going in the right direction. I showed up, Nick delivered.

The first day there while going through conversation drills I got stuck. I froze and had a complete block. Nick ran through some improv material with me, then I took a few steps back. After some deep breaths and shaking it off, I was able to step back in and continue. Later, during the night training, I hit another wall. I was supposed to notice and go talk to 3 people about something interesting in a crowded bar laden area of town. I wasn't able to complete the assignment I was so frozen. After pulling me aside to speak, he then took us into a bar. Pointing out a game in the corner, he had to literally (physically) push me into talking to a group. At that point, I didn't have a choice but to react go with it, but you know what happened? They responded openly and I ended up playing Jenga with a girl in that group. There was the shift I needed.

After the training the next day, we all went out for "infield" training. While at a packed bar, Nick noticed some girls wearing the same t-shirts and suggested one of us go see what that was all about. I was able to walk right up and start a conversation almost completely at ease! I'm pretty sure I spoke to almost every girl in that bar before we left as well as getting offered a phone number! We then left to go to another place with a completely different vibe to it. The groups there were more closed and less open to conversation. We ended up starting a conversation with a group that was looking to go dancing, so we all left together. We then had great conversations and danced until the end of the night.

The next day after training, I struck up conversations with two women at brunch, a few others while waiting in line at the airport. I currently have a date scheduled for Sunday (less than a week later) and have started numerous conversations. I'm catching women glancing at me out of the corner of my eye. It's an amazing feeling.

I cannot say enough about the quality of this program, but as I mentioned before, you need to be in the right head space and heart space to get the most from the training. What I mean by that is that the training is given with the underlying respect and love for women that Nick has. The women in the program are absolutely top notch, intuitive, intelligent and honest and whom I can't say enough good things about. If you're trying to decide whom to train with or you're on the fence about training with Nick, give yourself this gift. You will thank yourself for it.

If you are looking for coaching to push your comfort zones and truly be connected with yourself and your feelings (in this case related to sexual energy, attraction, etc.) then this class is for you! As is stated in many "self help" or life guide books and material, if you are not feeling uncomfortable then you are not growing but staying the same person you have always been.

This class is NOT for someone looking for an easy pickup line, or more "techniques" to win women over. This class is focused on YOU, and your feelings. Appreciating the beauty in others, and being OKAY with having sexual feelings towards someone. This is not done in a creepy way, nor is is received as such if done properly.

I highly recommend taking this class if you fall into the first category, and want to elevate yourself emotionally. This will work WAY better than any pickup line, or technique can teach.

For anyone reading this review, I wish you the best in your journey of self discovery. Being willing to take the steps to improve yourself are not always the easiest (as it implies you are lacking), but are also the most rewarding!

I am a graduate of Nick Sparks’ weekend live coaching program. And it works. Trust me, I’m living proof of that. But it will only work if you do what Nick says. Not just for the weekend, but every day. Like, for the rest of your life. It is a commitment, and for at least a little while, it isn’t easy. But it’s the best thing you could ever do for yourself.

If there’s one thing I know for certain after working with Nick, it’s that most dating advice (or “how-to-finally-get-laid” advice) puts the cart before the horse. They might teach you words to say, words not to say, behaviors to adopt, counter-intuitive insights into the opposite sex, and all kinds of things that may make you marginally better with women and help you to not be a completely clueless pushover, but still don’t get to the true heart of the matter, the most important elements you need to cultivate in yourself. It’s still building a house on a foundation of sand.

Nick will give you the solid, cement foundation you need on which to build everything else. He will teach you how to change your state of being. And from that, everything else you want will follow. But again, you HAVE to do what he says.

When I came to Nick, I was recently divorced and having a very hard time connecting with women. I had literally gone on over ten first dates, and never got a second. Not once. The dates were all quite pleasant, with conversation flowing freely and both of us enjoying each other’s company. I even made out with some of them at the end of the date. But while they all liked me as a person, all of them—unanimously—only wanted to see me again in a platonic way. I didn’t know what was going on or what I was doing incorrectly. I truly believed that something must be fundamentally wrong with me, and I had no idea what it was.

When I talked to Nick on the phone, he assured me I was not alone, I was in good hands, he knew exactly what was going on and how to fix it, and that after returning home from his workshop, I would be a “Tinder Terror.” I would be unstoppable. It sounded too good to be true.

My biggest fear was spending the money, taking the workshop, getting all my hopes up, then returning home, going on another bunch of first dates, and having the same thing happen. I would have to resign myself to being that same lonely, frustrated guy forever. The fear of feeling that hopelessness was very real. But somehow, there was something about Nick that I just trusted. I’m very much a realist—I always think “snake oil” when I see ads that say things like “Say these five words to make any woman do whatever you want!” Most of that stuff is clearly created by douchebags for douchebags (just try being married, guys!). It’s pretty much the same game as faith healers. The reason they’re so successful is because their target customers are in a very emotionally vulnerable place and desperate for a solution.
The cynical part of me said that Nick was probably just another one of these repackaged faith healers. But watching Nick’s videos, there was just something about him that was so insightful and down-to-earth. His revelations about sexual chemistry were like nothing I’d ever heard before, and it was clearly based in sincere curiosity and fascination. He didn’t see women as opponents that you needed to out-think and out-maneuver until you got what you wanted from them. I thought, here was a guy who lived on planet earth and genuinely wanted to help people connect and find happiness, not demean women and sell snake oil. So, I took a shot and signed up for the course. It was the best decision I ever made (or maybe the second-best, behind getting divorced :) ).

I won’t go into what Nick teaches you over the weekend (it’s his bread and butter after all), but I guarantee you, if you’re reading this, there are mental habits and processes—neural pathways that your thoughts go through—that you don’t even know exist. These pathways sabotage your interactions with yourself and the opposite sex, and cause you to involuntarily think thoughts and feel feelings that are counter-productive to connecting with others and creating sexual chemistry. But right now, you don’t know what they are. And it’s not your fault that these pathways are there. Believe me, that was one of my biggest sticking points. I’m always the first one to declare that you’re responsible for your actions, not your parents or your peers or society, etc. But as you’ll learn if you work with Nick, these pathways have been constructed without your knowledge or permission since you were in diapers. But you can change them. You can re-route them, the same way you can lose weight or build muscle or learn a martial art or learn to play a musical instrument. You can cultivate a new state of mind, free of the fear and insecurity that’s held you back your whole life. If, and only if, you DO WHAT NICK SAYS.

I soon went on my first date since attending Nick’s workshop. I was sleeping with her two days later. Then I went on another date with another woman. And another. And another. I’m now seeing multiple women at once (which brings on a whole new set of problems in your life, but definitely better problems to have!). I’m seeing the entire world anew, in a way I can’t explain here because it’s something you have to experience to truly understand. But I can tell you that in my social interactions, I don’t worry about what to say or do, I don’t worry about what I just said or did, and I enjoy the moment, whatever it may be. And all I’m doing is what Nick taught me.

Go take the course. Do whatever Nick says. Ask all the questions you need to. He’ll answer them. On the last day, Nick will give you a game plan, written down, to follow when you get home. Read this every day. Put it on your phone. Read it in the can. In every interaction you have with every person you encounter, male and female, practice the things Nick teaches. Keep reading Nick’s book. Read at least a chapter before going to sleep at night. When you finish the book, go right back to page one and re-read it. It’s a very quick and easy read. Do this until you get to where you want to be (and don’t forget the articles on his site. Keep reading those too. That’s great stuff as well). It WILL happen for you. Trust me.
You may have to face some hard, painful truths about yourself along the way. I know I did. You will probably screw up along the way. You might be embarrassed. You might be kicking yourself. You’ll probably question yourself a lot and wonder if you’re doing anything right at all. You might get THIS close to success and then make one wrong move see it all crumble away. That’s a really shitty feeling, believe me. But you have to keep going. This stuff runs deep. Clearing it out isn’t easy. But only you can do it. It’s like being in a jungle of weeds and thorns and brush with no path to walk. Nick will give you the machete. But you have to forge your way through. Most people won’t even consider beginning a journey like this, because of what they’re afraid they’ll find and the emotions they’ll have to feel. But if you’re reading this, you’re at least considering it, so hats off to you! As someone who persevered and came out the other end, believe me when I say it’s worth it.

I want every man on earth to get to where I am right now. I wish that the things Nick teaches were taught in public schools. I can’t begin to imagine how much happier so many people could be. But since our culture isn’t ready for that, you have to go learn from the man himself. So please, for your own sake, and for the sake of all the people in your life, the ones you know and the ones you’ll meet in the future, go take Nick’s course. And DO. WHAT. THE. F*&#. NICK. SAYS! You’re welcome. :)