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Dating Skills Review Editors' Choice awards recognize dating advice for men of the highest quality. They are strong recommendations for products that have advice which provide 'best of class' solutions for the specific challenges that you have and which address your most common questions. This list will also, of course, be continually updated as our editors discover new exceptional products that are worthy of a recommendation. |
| Your Question | Your Situation/ Challenge | Your Needs | Editors' Choice | Commentary | Other Products Reviewed | Products Not Yet Reviewed |
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| I Want Something Simple to Get Started. What Should I Get First? | - Don't know where to start - Have little to no success with women - Don't know how to go about meeting women | - Learning how to meet more women - Support and motivation to get you started | Double Your Dating eBook | This ebook provides a great introduction into improving your dating life, with step by step exercises, and a lot of hand holding to take you through the first steps of improving your dating life. Simple and to the point, so you don't get overly bogged down. | - Date to Win - The Attraction Code - Dating to Relating - Real World Seduction 2.0 |
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| I Don't Understand What Attracts Women or How to Be Attractive. What Will Give Me the Best Understanding of Attraction? | - Can talk to women but they always become friends - Don't understand what attracts women |
- Understanding how attraction works | Real World Seduction 2.0 | This ebook takes a hard look at attraction from both inner game (confidence) and external approaches. It a much improved upgrade of the original work that was an innovative addition to dating science in the early 2000s. | - Double Your Dating eBook - Date to Win - Dating to Relating - The Blueprint Decoded - The Attraction Code |
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| How Do I Meet Girls in Bars and Clubs? | - Don't know how to go about picking up girls in bars/ clubs - Have little to no success at meeting women in bars/ clubs | - Understanding the basic structure of how to pick up women in bars - Learning techniques for meeting and attracting women in bars | Magic Bullets Handbook or Revelation | These ebooks both provide comprehensive explanations of picking up women in bars and clubs. | - Unbreakable | N/A |
| How Do I Meet Girls During the Day? | - You see a lot of attractive women during the day but don't know how to approach them - You are only able to approach women in some situations during day (e.g. cafe) but not others and you miss opportunities | - Learning how to approach women in any situation (cafe, walking in street, events, shops) - Learn the types of conversation and techniques you can use during the day to pick them up smoothly | Daygame Blueprint | A very practical product using lots of real infield footage of men approaching and picking women up during the day to teach you step by step how to do it yourself. |
- Daytime Dating - Never Sleep Alone - Attraction Formula (Paul Janka) |
- Direct Dating Summit |
| How Do I Stop Girls Flaking on Me? | - Women 'flake' on you a lot - You get phone numbers from women but find it difficult to meet them again | - Learning how to make phone numbers more solid - Learning how to use text, email and phone the best | The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game (90%) | A great product that arrived on the market in 2010 with a far more complete solution than we've seen before. |
- Magnetic Messaging- Guys Guide to Texting - Ultimate Texting Guide - Flake Elimination Toolkit - Text Game (Janka Method) - The Text and Phone Game |
- No Flakes - B4 U TXT HER - The Txt Book - Love Systems Interview Series Volume 43 - Prevent Flaking - Text Game (PUA Method) - Text Game Secret - Phone & Text Game - Get the Date with Text Game |
| I've Studied a Lot But I'm Not Getting Better. What Do I Do Now? | - Have studied a lot of dating and pick up advice but still don't get the results you want - Have read a lot of dating and pick up advice, and have become overwhelmed (confused) | - Focus on doing things that will make a real difference to your results (rather than everything) | The Advanced Dating Strategies (90%) | It is quite common for students of dating advice to read too much and get to the point where they are paralyzed. We previously recommended The 4 Elements of Game as it did a good job of helping you to focus and prioritize on just the few things that make most of the difference in the results you get. The Advanced Strategies is the 2nd product from the same company (Date Hotter Girls) and goes even further to helping you keep things simple and improve. |
- The 4 Elements of Game (75%) - The Complete Game Seduction System |
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| I Can't Approach Women to Talk to Them. How Do I Get Past This? | - Get approach anxiety - You are unable to cold approach women - Too scared to approach women to start conversations | - Overcome inner fears about approaching women - Learn new mindsets about approaching and meeting women - Learn specific techniques to reduce 'anxiety' levels | She's Six Steps Away | This product targets purely approach anxiety and how to overcome your fear of approaching women. The advice is practical and effective. |
- Approaching Confidence - The Complete Game Seduction System |
- How to Beat Approach Anxiety - Interview Series Vol 44. Overcoming Approach Anxiety - Handling Female Tests and Approach Anxiety - Tapping for PUAs |
| How Do I Make a Better First Impression? | - Not making a good first impression on women - Have no 'style' - Feel you don't understand how to improve your image/ first impression - Not getting compliments from women on your body (or having unattractive body) - Not getting compliments from women on your image (clothes, hair etc.) | - Learn how to make your body the most attractive possible- Learn the basics of fashion and style - Learn how to learn about fashion continuously - Learn the basics of hygiene, and keeping your body pleasant for women (or much better) | N/A | We have yet to review a product that we believe provides a near complete solution, and can strongly recommend to you. However, if you don't get compliments on your body and fitness it is the first place to start - the best there is in that area is the Adonis Index. | - Adonis Index - Brad's Fashion Bible - Dress for Success |
- The Handsome Factor - The Style Bible - Men's Style - Dressing the Man - The Seventh Sense of Fashion - Detail's Mens Style Manual - Queer Eye for the Straight Guy |
| I Don't Believe in Myself. How Can I Build My Confidence? | - Constantly questioning yourself thinking you are doing things wrong or are unsure - Know what to do and when but have difficulty in just doing it - Constantly talking to yourself in your head when you are around women (or just other people in general) - When in a relationship with a woman you are constantly scared of losing her - Unable to relax and enjoy the moment and be yourself - Find yourself often 'settling' in life with the types of women you are dating which don't fit your real aspirations |
- Learn how to stop the constant chatter and distracting 'questioning' in your head - Gain the confidence to act when you need to - Become more 'natural' and able to act in the moment - Feel and know you deserve the attention of attractive women - Have the confidence to go after what you really want in life and dating |
Secrets of Inner Game (80%) | The Secrets of Inner Game is effective because it's a very practical approach to working on inner game and confidence. We give it 80% recommendation weighting because it could be a little more comprehensive, so we'll keep an eye out for something that is more complete. |
- The Power of Now - Foundations of Attraction - The Blueprint Decoded |
- Collection of Confidence |
| How do I Improve my Sexual Performance and Have Better Sex? | - Feel uncomfortable with sex and not sure what to do - Not sure if girls enjoy sex with you - Feel like compared to other guys you aren't giving girl's as much pleasure - Not sure if girl is having orgasm or she isn't having them | - Understanding women's sexual needs - Learning techniques and approaches to giving women more sexual pleasure | Sex God Method 2nd Edition (90%) Add 2 Girls Teach Sex if extra implementation support needed. | The Sex God Method ebook represents a giant breakthrough for men and their sex lives. It will completely change the way you think about sex and open your eyes to a much wider realm of sexual possibilities with your woman. It is an essential read. If you need more practical help and learn better with visual live sexual demonstrations you can also add the 2 Girls Teach Sex course which helps more with implementation. |
- Revolutionary Sex
- The Couple's Guide to Revolutionary Sex - 2 Girls Teach Sex - Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms |
- Female Orgasm Blueprint
- Sexual Mastery - Secret Orgasms Tips Course - Female Orgasm Revealed |
| How Do I Fix a Sexual Concern I Have? | - Sexual worries that you are embarrassed to talk about - A concern about sex (or your body) that is inhibiting you | Diagnosing and finding a solution for your sexual concern | Revolutionary Sex (70%) | A large part of this ebook is dedicated to discussing in a very practical and direct manner the common sexual concerns that men have (size of penis, erectile dysfunction etc.). It is missing a thorough discussion of STDs to make complete. | N/A | N/A |
| How Do I Have Better Relationships with Women? | - Relationships never last very long or are unstable - Lack of experience in long term relationships - Relationships are unsatisfactory and don't meet expectations | - Understanding the requirements for long term relationship stability - Understanding how to improve the health of relationships - Developing stronger, deeper and more intimate relationships | - The One(der)System: Man's Guide to Getting Your 100% Perfect Girl (65%) - The Way of the Superior Man (30%) -Become Mr. Right (45%) | The area of relationships still has a long way to go with respect to advice. There is certainly some very good advice that exists, but it is fragmented across the whole dating advice market. There is no product that combines the knowledge into a very solid product. As a result we are recommending a few products that do the best job. The One(der) System has some good practical insights into starting the relationship properly and keeping the girl. The Way of the Superior Man should be read by every man, however, its advice is at times a bit cryptic and not easy to apply. It also only covers a small part of relationships. The best attempt at putting relationship advice into one product is David DeAngelo's Become Mr. Right. However, this remains a long way off from a complete solution. |
- Relationship Management | N/A |
| How Do I Get My Ex-Girlfriend Back? | - You girlfriend has just dumped you (end the relationship) and you want her back - You want to get into a relationship with an ex-girlfriend | - Understand why the relationship ended and what was within your control (and not) - Learn best approach to ensure that the relationship doesn't become irreparable (e.g. hate, disrespect etc.) - Learn best approach to reattract a girlfriend that has lost interest with you | - The One(der)System: Man's Guide to Getting Your 100% Perfect Girl(70%) | We have yet to review a product that we believe provides a near complete solution, and can strongly recommend to you. Until we find an ideal product we recommend The One(der) System because it contains some very effective advice - it's weakness is that it doesn't explain the details of implementation significantly. |
- Ex Back System - Magic of Making Up |
- Break Up Reversed - How to Get Your Ex Back - How to Get an Ex Back in 30 Days or Less |
| How Can I Use Online Dating to Meet Women? | - Interested in meeting women online but don't know how to go about it - Have tried online dating but unable to get responses - Have tried online dating but haven't been able to meet appropriate women (e.g. you are attracted to or interested in or have some relationship expectations) | - Learn how to set up an attractive profile that will get response from women - Learn which online dating sites or social sites are most appropriate for you - Learn how to contact women to generate a maximum response rate - Learn how to move the communication offline to meeting her | The Gentleman's Guide to Online Dating | The Gentleman's Guide to Online Dating is a solid and very comprehensive product taking you from creating a profile and choosing a dating site all the way to messaging and getting dates online. | - Secrets of Online Dating | - Meeting Women Online - Push Button Dating - The Online Game Internet Attraction System - How to Pick Up Online - Window Shopping for Women - The Ultimate Man's Guide to Online Dating - 5 Steps to Online Dating Success - Chet's Dating System |
| How Do I Have Multiple Relationships with Women? | - Interested but have no idea how to go about having multiple relationships, friends with benefits or other poly amorous types of relationships - Have some form of multiple relationship but is not working for you or the women involved are not happy with it | - Learn how to understand what the women involved will and won't accept (or want) - Learn how to manage the relationships to minimize conflicts - Learn about the realities of having relationships with multiple women | - The NSA System: The Top Secret Guide to Finding And Keeping Multiple Girls (70%) | We have yet to find a product that we believe provides a near complete solution, and can strongly recommend to you. However, the NSA System is a good product that gives practical advice on a particular system that is the most appropriate for the majority of women. | - The NSA System: The Top Secret Guide to Finding And Keeping Multiple Girls - Relationship Management |
- The Secret to Dating Multiple Girlfriends - The Ethical Slut - Threesome - Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships |
| How Can I Build a Great Dating Lifestyle? | - Want to get access to the highest quality women and make it easier to attract them - Want to reduce the time you invest in meeting women - Feel that you have some unhealthy unsocial habits because of over use of 'cold approach' | - Learn how to build your social circle - Learn what your goals for a social circle need to be for it to improve your dating lifestyle - Learn how to game women in your social circles without damaging them | Social Circle Mastery DVD | This is an outstanding DVD product based on Love Systems' seminars of the same name run for a number of years. It is an excellent guide to building a great dating lifestyle. | - The One(der)System: Man's Guide to Getting Your 100% Perfect Girl - Social Circle Mastery Seminar - Conquer Your Campus - The Social Domination Blueprint |
- Lifestyle Seduction House Party PUA - Interview Series Vol. 20: Social Circle Game - The College Code |
| I Do Really Well with Some Women, But Awful with Others. How Do I Do As Well with All Women? | - Have been treating all women the same so far - Frustrated because things don't work with some women that you like and you don't understand why - Aren't able to observe or calibrate to the different attitudes women have towards dating | - Learn to understand and see the important differences between types of women - Learn how different types of women respond differently to different approaches - Learn how to calibrate your approach and actions that work the best with the women you are interested in | Pandora's Box System (85%) | We have not found an ideal product for this yet, however the Pandora's Box system was created to fix this issue. It contains a very clear structure that men with experience can use to understand and fix this issue. | - Dating to Relating - from A to Z | No others currently. |
| Should I Use a Different Approach with Asian Women? | - Specifically interested in dating Asian women - Frustrated because dating skills you use in West don't seem relevant in the East | - Learn the cultural differences of Asian women - Adapt your dating skills to work with Asian women - Learn what you should expect from dating Asian women | Japanese Girls - The Guide (for Japanese women only) | We have not found a highly recommended program to teach about Asian women in general however the Japanese Girls Guide is an excellent introduction into "specifically" Japanese women culture and how it affects dating. Some of the material, but not all is relevant to Asians of other nationality. Also check out our dating asian women ranking. | - Secrets of Dating Asian Women (Dean Cortez) - How to Get All the Korean Women You Ever Wanted - Asian Magnet 101 |
- Pick Up and Seduce Japanese Girls - How to Hook Up with Asian Girls - Unlocking the Secrets to Asian Women |
Last Updated: 4 April 2013