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Modern Day Sexual Man
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"Effective Way to Change Your Sex Life Into a Game of Discovery and Pleasures."

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The Good
Emphasis on discovering and gathering sexual energy without the new-age stuff. Mostly practical techniques and examples. The audio and video quality are good.
The Bad
There are no written documents to consult. The course is a 7-hour presentation from start to finish without any pictures.
The Bottom Line
This is a highly practical course focused on giving you the ‘how to’ of pleasing a woman in bed and developing a better sex life. Great fit for guys who are able to get a woman into bed but want to take their sexual skills to the next level.

If you’re looking for something that really focuses on practical techniques, this is the best program we’ve reviewed in this area. If you want something more focused on the mental aspects of being a better lover, a great program is Unleash The Beast by Alex Allman.


In Modern Day Sexual Man you will learn how to find many of women’s arousal triggers, new sex positions, and some hypnosis techniques.

You’ll also discover that, “Sex is about exploring another human being’s mind, body, and energy by building intimacy and a strong emotional connection through vulnerability” (Sexual philosophy, module 1).

The Creator - Hypnotica

Hypnotica is a pioneer in dating, sex, and relationship coaching. He was one of the earliest members of the seduction community, and even depicted as Neil Strauss’s (Style) coach in The Game. You can read his full biography here.

How Does Modern Day Sexual Man Work?

The first contact with Hypnotica is in the fast track video, where he explains the content of the 8 modules, and claims we will feel like a sexual superstar after the program, with the tools to please a woman and have an amazing sex life.

The foundations of this claim lie in increasing your sex drive and energy, so women can feel attracted to you and stay around. Obvious ways to boost your sexual energy and prevent erectile dysfunction are to have a healthy lifestyle, of course, because excess weight, smoking, anxiety and low stamina are not sexy.

Hypnotica’s more thorough protocol to build sexual energy in yourself and women is proven to work, and he frames it in an interesting discovery mindset that will help you stop masturbating, among other things.

Modern Day Sexual Man is housed in a basic website that gives access to the videos online, or via download, which is a great feature. Overall, the user experience is simple and to the point. There is no online community.

The product consists of 8 video presentations with slides (7 hours), and 10 audio bonuses (7 hours). You could skip reading the bullet points and only listen, most slides last around 5 minutes and have around 60 written words, while Hypnotica talks fast at about 150 words per minute. You would get the same information from reading a 225-page book.

If you absolutely need to read text to learn and study, you could be bothered with this product because there is no written document. It’s more difficult to listen and understand at your own pace, or to come back to a specific technique for review. However, modern media players have options to slow lecture speed. Also, titles and bullet points are well organized, helping you navigate the video.

There is nothing superfluous in this product, time flies while in learning mode, and you’ll also have a good laugh once in a while. If you have one or more women in your life, you’ll imagine having sex with her while listening, it’s a pleasant feeling.

Sneak Peek of the Modules and Bonuses.

Module 1: Getting Your Head Right
Sexuality is deeply moral in our society and can be caught in restraining inherited belief systems. However, men need to understand that their sexual energy is theirs alone. To fully experience it, men need to reclaim control and ask themselves what they want to do with it: have sex and kids only in marriage or experience all its possible pleasures with multiple partners? Reading this, I guess you aim for the latter.

Women crave men who open them up sexually and this can be done by sexually free men without moral issues, who respect women, and have the courage to lead and explore in bed.

This discovery mindset will help you focus elsewhere than on performance and orgasm, get rid of anxiety, and start having fun leading women in the discovery of their bodies.

Module 2 - Foreplay

Foreplay is a mind game, and it works because our brains are our biggest sex tool. This module does not teach how to pick up women, it teaches why they come back with proper priming. Examples of styles like “the unpredictable” and “the giver” could separate you from other men, and maybe make women fantasize about you. This module could help you if you’re afraid to talk about sex outside the bedroom.

Module 3 - Hands

First keep them clean and lubricated if necessary. Second, specific techniques are described and easy to understand even in audio format. Pressure points, speed, hands position, and awareness to her response: all is there to help you please your partner. Some interesting techniques even include your thumb and nose. This module will help you discover some of women’s erotic triggers.

Module 4 - Giving Oral

This module’s emphasis is also on your partner’s pleasure. It contains a lot of techniques you’ll need to review once or twice while experimenting. They are very detailed even without pictures, and those that require making sounds are properly recorded. This module will help you give new sensations to your partner, it’s interesting if you’re unsure how to give great oral sex.

If you’re adventurous, you could also try some hypnotic post-orgasm techniques to foster this state of mind and body, which are an interesting and unique feature of Hypnotica’s teachings.

Module 5 - Receiving Oral

In this module Hypnotica gives techniques with food and sweet talk that could change the negative association of your penis in her mouth to a positive one. The proposed goal is to develop her sexual self-esteem, while communicating what you like and want in an assertive but respectful way.

Module 6 - Vaginal

This module aims to teach you about rhythm, tempo, variations, and some unique sexual positions. There are obviously less communication techniques in this module, and more “bam bam bam!” Hypnotica refers to external videos from his YouTube channel for more information and visuals.This module is interesting for men who want to try new positions.

Module 7 - Anal

Anal pleasure is more complex to achieve in your sexual life than vaginal or oral, but this module can guide you. You’ll learn that most women can experience anal pleasure and orgasms with the proper relaxation and conditioning techniques. You could become the only man who does it right for her if you have the right attitude. You’ll also learn about benefits of butt plugs, good hygiene, going slowly, and the squeezing technique.

Module 8 - Penis Performance

Here Hypnotica talks about your penis and how to improve your erection and control your ejaculation. He gives interesting advice to help you stick to Kegel exercises. This module could help men who masturbate to porn redirect their energy towards their partner.

Hypnotica gives a website to buy cheap Cialis/tadalafil to prevent impotence in high stakes sexual relations, like first times or while partying a lot. However, this drug is normally prescribed by doctors after examination of the sexual dysfunction problem. It’s mostly safe, but some people with known medical problems or taking medication should refrain from using it.


These are gifts from Hypnotica that cover other areas of dating, sex and relationship. They are not essential parts of the program, but here’s what to expect from a couple of them.

Bonus 1 - Ultimate Polyamory

This bonus is a 45 minutes interview Hypnotica gave to an unknown interviewer. It contains mostly tips on establishing rules for a 1 guy with 2 women polyamorous lifestyle, nothing else. There's a how-to for first dates and ongoing relationships based on transparency and respect. It’s unfortunately low on emotional content, which will obviously be a major drawback of this lifestyle.

It takes courage to implement this lifestyle which often fails, so be prepared, and do consult other resources before trying this relationship, like this interview Angel had on this subject with Elisabeth Sheff.

Bonus 2 - The Smooth Talker

It’s an interview with the same guy as above. A smooth talker is a man who makes women think, because it adds value to the relationship. Be the man who has opinions about world news, trends, and positions on questions about dating and mating, like “is sex better intimate or rough? Lights on or off? Sleep on first date or not?” This bonus is helpful for men looking for pickup techniques, but it’s short and incomplete.

Bonus 3 and 4 - From Friend to Lover and Lover to Girlfriend
This one is interesting, because with the advent of online dating, men will make a lot of interesting female friends with whom they can continue to do specific activities and can get carried away in their hopes. Hypnotica hammers that you should “do your thing and don't just hang out and wait for her!” Don't be a follower who always say yes. Be in control and have other things going on in your life, like other women.

If you like her, you should tease her continuously and plant seduction seeds once in a while and only do fun things together. Be aware that it could stay in the friend zone, so don’t react negatively to her silence or rejection. Flirting is always fun, with friends or lovers.

Then, you'll learn about choosing a woman to be a part of your life, which is obvious for most of us but is big deal for Hypnotica: with all the women to choose from, which one will satisfy me in the long run, not only sexually but in life?

And even more bonuses
You’ll receive other bonus recordings about diet, teasing women, and where to meet single women.
Does The Program Work? is it Legit?

The Science

There are no scientific explanations or external references in this program, everything is from Hypnotica’s lifestyle and experience with women. However, dating, sex and relationships are more an art than a hard science, so Hypnotica is more like an artist.

Testing The Product

Going into this review knowing Hypnotica's methods, I was skeptical about using hypnosis techniques to foster sexual relationships. But, Hypnotica has a proper ethical sense and I assure you there are no manipulation techniques in this product that will get you in any kind of trouble.

I have a fairly diverse and satisfying sex life, but I still tested every technique in this product with a couple of women, one of which is my girlfriend now. The techniques are super easy to implement: next time you’re in bed initiating sex, pick one and try it. They are all known to give women intense pleasure, orgasms, and to spur their fantasies for exploration. Here are the results I experienced with The Modern Day Sexual Man.

First lesson: you need concentration for proper execution, a lot of sexual energy, and awareness of your partner’s sexual and emotional states, so I advise against using these techniques after drinking or taking drugs, or too late at night, and try to stay fit.

Like me, maybe you’ll feel some hilarious side effects using this product. You could feel odd if you hear Hypnotica’s instructions, with his deep voice in your head, while your fingers are inside a vagina doing the backhand push pull. Maybe you’ll feel weird too when you try the water pump position and your woman screams to unconsciousness, as you tell yourself "It works !!" Fortunately, these side effects are transient, and funny.

Second lesson: Hypnotica has a polyamorous lifestyle and sleeps with new women all the time, so he is always in his peak of sexual exploration. His product influenced me to explore further women’s sexuality. As the relation with my girlfriend persisted, we became satisfied with our new sexual boundaries, and our intense sex drive. I found that when sexuality is emotional, healthy and balanced, my partner tries new things on me, and that’s very satisfying.

In this comfort zone, I found it harder to be a modern day sexual man on weekdays when time in bed is short, energy is low, and initiating sex is easy. I try to foreplay every day to keep the fire burning in my stable relationship, and this product helped me in this area.

I also get more adventurous sexually on the weekends. I can start early with techniques I learned in the foreplay module, and spread them all day to build her desire to the maximum. We also have more quiet time in bed, and more opportunities to hit it anywhere during the day.

Third lesson: I used some of the techniques with new women I met, and all they noticed was the pleasure, and they are still calling me. However, with my girlfriend, I had to explain where I learned more advanced techniques I used on her in the same night, so be careful.

Although I wasn’t very fond of it, I even tried the techniques that lead to anal sex. Hypnotica is smoother in his approach than other coaches I read, and he made this desire and pleasure less awkward and more fun. He tells fun anecdotes in this module.

After trying all techniques in this program, a dozen of them leaked into my regular repertoire. My greatest takeaway of this product is "be a sexual man, explore new things, and observe."

Who is This a Good Fit For?

This product will have the biggest impact for men who can attract women and get them into bed, but who lose them after a couple of dates. It’s purpose is to heighten women’s pleasure and experience with you in hopes of making them come back.

For others, this product is full of insights for building sexual energy with the women you choose to be in your life. You’ll probably find something new to try and practice in this product.

Who is This Not a Good Fit For?

If you can’t attract women yet, this product will not help you, Make Women Want You, by Jason Capital would be more adapted to your needs. If exploring your sexuality like talking dirty, trying new sex positions, trying oral and anal sex, and being a little dominant in the bedroom frightens you, this product is not for you either.

The Bottom Line

This product costs $67 and is average for this kind of product. It’s more expensive than a book, but at around $5 per hour of unique content you won’t find elsewhere. It’s designed to change men’s perception of sex into a game of discovery and pleasures and oriented for those who are already successful initiating sexual relationships.

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