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She's Six Steps Away
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"A systematic approach that definitely works"

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This system works. My only complaint is that it's almost too easy. It requires fairly little intensity of effort, but it does require a little bit of effort spread over a long period of time. The reason for this is that Disco wants you to form life-long habits that stick. You can't solve this with "book-learning"... it requires repetition. It's like training for muscle memory; you know how athletes train so that they can react and respond during the game without thinking? That's pretty much what this program seeks to do; to train you to move your feet and interact when you FEEL attraction, without thinking.

The thing that stops you from approaching is your emotions... it's not that you don't know how, it's the feeling that stops you. It's called inhibition, and Disco takes you through a bunch of baby-steps that allows you to gradually acclimate yourself to that emotion so that it eventually becomes manageable. This was a breakthrough for me; I seem to have been born with (or maybe taught ... maybe both) a high level of inhibition. For instance, I used to be really scared of heights but after doing a lot of hikes and exposing myself to that emotion little by little without freaking myself out, I'm able to do some really awesome hikes. Where there used to be fear there is now excitement and exhilaration. This program is similar. It starts with fairly easy exercises which give you small doses of that inhibition/fear on a daily basis. By following the program you keep the fear within a tolerable zone while moving towards being a guy who simply interacts with anyone he finds attractive.

The thing I love about this program is that it allows you to be yourself! It doesn't ask you to dress a certain way, or say certain things... it simply has one purpose, and that is to enable you to get over your fear and hesitation/inhibition. It actually helps you align your actions with your thoughts and emotions (you feel attraction you go towards the thing which is attracting you... makes sense, yeah?) Ghandi said "happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony." If that's true then sadness/suffering must be when what you think, say and do are out of sync... and isn't that what approach anxiety is? You are attracted to something but you don't act on it? It's a terrible feeling and there's no excuse for subjecting yourself to that suffering when there are ways to alleviate it. This may seem like an overly glowy review, but whatever, I really do think this is a brilliant system. Approach anxiety (inhibition) has been such a huge monkey on my back for so long, and by following this system my life is changing. It's like having a big stupid tumor removed. Just make sure you are willing to devote about an hour or so a day to it, and make sure you have a place to go where there are attractive women every day.
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