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The NSA System: The Top Secret Guide to Finding And Keeping Multiple Girls
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"Solid and Practical System for Dating Multiple Women"

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The Good
Highly practical and effective advice on dating multiple women, good value for money
The Bad
Weaker advice on threesomes, doesn't address more open relationship styles (e.g. polygamy)
The Bottom Line
Good quality, simple and to the point advice that will improve the experience of dating multiple women for both you and the women.

A 'No Brainer' buy for someone taking their first steps in or struggling with dating multiple women.


This program explains how to get, keep and manage relationships with multiple women at the same time.

The first 5 modules of the 6 modules in this course are actually made up from previous Mehow products (The One(der) System and How to Talk 2 Hot Women). In these first 5 modules you learn how to get girls and girlfriends.

See the reviews of The One(der) System and How to Talk 2 Hot Women to find out what we thought of those first 5 modules.

In this review we are reviewing only Module 6 - The NSA (No Strings Attached) Model, which is the part specifically related to dating multiple women. The rating we have given this product however is for the whole product. So make sure to read the other 2 reviews above about the first 5 modules before reading the review below.

What is NSA (Module 6) About?

Many guys have a very rosy view of dating multiple women from the outside. As soon as you actually get in this position, you realize that it's not all happy days and this kind of lifestyle can bring on a lot of negatives - for you and the girls - if not dealt with properly. As a result, most of the advice on dating multiple women focuses on minimizing or reducing the negatives and emphasizing the positives. That's really the key here.
What are the Negatives?
Negatives typically include:
  • - Drama: Drama for and from the girls because they aren't happy with the situation. This drama can be energy sapping, take all the fun out of the relationships and otherwise distract your from the good stuff in life.
  • - Hurting the Girls: You can hurt girls when you give them the wrong expectations or when you put them in bad social situations.
  • - Affecting the Rest of Your Life: Creating messy situations with multiple women can spill out and affect your social life, work and other aspects of your life. A lot more common that you would think.

For a great autobiographical account of what not to do and how to bring a lot of dissatisfaction into your life via dating multiple women check out Nine Ball by Jeff Allen where he recounts among other things about how girls smash up his car to bring vengeance back upon him and his ex-girlfriend working systematically to turn his girlfriends against him.

Not Just About the Negatives
While avoiding the negatives is the biggest value in learning to date multiple women, there are also upside areas to explore.

Mehow tackles these lightly, with tips to learn on making the most of the situation in terms of not letting the fact that you are dating multiple girls lead to only superfical relationship with no intimacy or connection and exploring your girls' bisexuality and the possibility of threesomes.

More on the limitations of his exploration further down...

Practical Rules to Follow

One of the things I liked most about this course was that Mehow gives you some excellent practical but simple rules to follow for setting up a multiple girl dating lifestyle. It really isn't that complicated, it takes a bit of self-discipline, and a bit of understanding of how girls feel in the situation - Mehow captures all this with his straightforward rules to follow.

These include what to do before you sleep with her and during the relationship and, more importantly, what not to do. Most of the mastery behind dating multiple women in a positive way comes down to not doing the things that sabotage the situation for both you and the girl.

Most of it is easy to do and implement.

Left Unexplored - Polygamy and Other Models

Mehow's NSA system is based upon the model I've seen most people use successfully for dating women - what I'd call the 'discretion' method because while it makes it clear to her that you are seeing multiple women, it also avoids rubbing it in her face indiscreetly.

It's the most suitable method I've seen so far for the majority of women - meaning it works with more women than other methods.

There are other models that people have successfully used. The most notable is polygamy which is perhaps most loudly evangelized in terms of dating advice today by Johnny Soporno, who has a background in the porn / swingers communities. It's a different model and not relevant to the majority of women.

Realities of Threesomes - but Lacks Depth

Props to Mehow on this subject as he brings up the fact that not all women are open to threesomes, and pushes a bit of realistic reality in your face. On the other hand, his exploration of the subject is a little weak.

There are certainly some good points he makes, but if you are specifically interested in threesomes it isn't the best advice - it lacks perspective, and has has some limiting beliefs on some levels.

The Bottomline

Good quality, simple and to the point advice on dating multiple women. If that's what you are interested in this program will make a world of difference in the quality of your dating lifestyle and that of the girls.

If you're struggling with juggling multiple relationships or you're taking your first steps it's really a no brainer to buy.

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Written by j
February 19, 2013
you rate this product as excellent then trash it on your review?
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Written by Angel Donovan
February 23, 2013
Hi J,

The rating is for the whole 6 modules of the NSA course. However the review only discusses the 6th module since we'd already covered the previous 5 modules in other reviews. To read the reviews for the first 5 modules check out the oneder system and how to talk 2 hot women reviews. That will give you a complete understanding of the 'excellent' rating we've given this product.
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Written by Aaron
July 29, 2015
When will Mehow start to sell this product again?
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