"Recommended for Guys Already Confident with their Sexual Skills"
March 12, 2010
FULL DETAILED REVIEW
You get a CD audio and an ebook with the program. The CD audio is basically the book being read out by David Shade - which is fine as some people prefer to listen and learn than read. To be clear though, exactly the same content is on the CD and the ebook.
All About Techniques - The Good and The BadBecause of its focus on techniques and solely the orgasm, this is a course most suited for guys at an advanced level. It does not discuss the basics of sex, or basic sexual issues and challenges you may have as a beginner.
For 85% or more of guys this is advanced material. You need to focus on getting the basics right, before you start using specific techniques, rather than pure 'love making' and sex in your relationships. If you haven't got those foundations in place and an existing healthy sex life, this course could warp your approach to sex and make it unnatural. That is something to keep in mind.
The techniques do work for the most part. And can be very powerful. There are a few instances of some I've had less success with and found a little awkward personally. But on the whole, these techniques have added a lot to my sexual life and the pleasure and orgasmic experience of my girlfriends. It walks the talk, and the techniques are a lot more practical than any of those in the standard sex books you find in bookstores.
Keep in mind that every girl is different and some of these techniques will be less effective or not at all on some women. It could be pretty confusing for a guy and lead him to get frustrated, thinking he isn't doing it right, and give up entirely if a technique is not working for him. Or think a technique 'doesn't work' when it is just a matter of a bad fit with their current partner. Readers should keep this in mind while learning from this product. David Shade brings this up, but should have discussed the ins and outs of it more to help his readers with the implementation of his advice.
Good Healthy Mental Attitudes to Sex and Your Woman OverallIn the first section of the program, entitled "Introduction" there is some good material on healthy mindsets towards sex. I feel like this section would be good for a beginner, because it tackles many of the unhealthy inhibitions that men may have, and explains why they are not correct. It talks a lot about what respecting a woman really means and why some of the social conditioning around this is wrong, and undermines your sex life and the sexual pleasure of the woman.
For example, he explains how women want you to respect them differently outside and inside of the bedroom. He goes into a lot of detail on this point, describing how a woman needs you to respect that she is a sexual creature and respecting her means letting her feel comfortable being sexual, showing that you respect her inner desires and are not judgmental about them. Most importantly 'respecting' her, means giving her the sexual experiences she desires and so on. The content on this reflects basic mindsets that every guy needs if he is to make the most of his sexual relationships.
Later in the book he reinforces excellent guidelines to nurturing your woman's sexuality. He talks about things you shouldn't say or do, you should pay attention to and how to open your woman's mind up to her sexuality step by step. There is some great content here.
Setting Things Straight About Female OrgasmsThere is a lot of confusion about female orgasms, the different types of them and how they happen and why. I've been reading about the subject for around 9 years and I never found anything that laid things out clearly.
"Give women wild screaming orgasms" goes into great and well researched detail on the topic. It also contains some visual graphics (in the ebook) that show you where everything is for the woman and the man. It has the best explanation of why women have different types of orgasms I've seen anywhere.
Well ResearchedThroughout the program David Shade explains the details and gives you background to his advice. This will give you confidence in the methods, and he has clearly done his homework. He also provides some relevant suggestions on good books to read up on more details about subjects such as the G-Spot and Ejaculation.
His introduction into Tantric sex and its purpose is great and clear. It cleared up a lot of confusion in what I've read in the past - again he researched to get to the bottom of what it was really about and how it could help you.
Where I Disagree...David Shade proposes that "You should never come inside a girl unless she is having orgasms with you." Instead he suggests you come on her face, or outside her if she isn't orgasmic already or just isn't having an orgasm at that time. This is to stop her associating you with the other 'losers' who gave her bad sex before.
This is over the top, and is really stemming from quite a negative mindset if you think about it. The underlying theme is "If you aren't giving her orgasms, then you are a loser." Not true. Girls can enjoy sex without having orgasms, there is a lot more to sexual pleasure for women than just orgasms. If you are overly focused on making sure that the girl orgasms with you I would say that you are thinking about it too much and you're missing out on some of the fun (and you very may end up being perceived as a 'loser' as a result - being too try-hard never is sexy).
If you use this course please keep this in mind when you apply the techniques - that way they'll add a lot of value to your and her sex life.
The Bottom LineThere is good, well researched material overall in this course and I would recommend that an experienced guy of advanced level get it if he wants to experiment further with and explore orgasms with his women.
This isn't a course I would recommend to beginners or even intermediates. That's to say, guys that don't already have a good healthy sex life and who are already pretty confident in the bedroom. If this isn't you, I recommend you first check out either Revolutionary Sex by Alex Allman or Female Orgasm Blueprint by Jason Julius. These will give you a good foundation from which you can then build on with the techniques in Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms.
Keep in mind, that at nearly $200 this is a much more expensive product compared to the two other two products above.
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