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"Eye Opening Weekend"
Overall rating
9.9
Effectiveness
10.0
Ease of Implementation
10.0
Innovativeness
9.0
Packaging/ Customer Service
10.0
Value for Money
10.0
Reviewed by SpeakerFTD1313
April 13, 2014
April 13, 2014
Coaching/ Bootcamps Information
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
Nick Sparks
Date Program Took Place:
March 27, 2014
This program is fantastic because it teaches you how to be yourself more fully around women. There's no lying or manipulating involved. The results that the weekend has given me around women and just people in general has completely transformed my life in two weeks.
Nick and the other coaches push you playfully from night one to approach groups of people and women I never would have approached and hang in conversations that I would never normally hang in, and the results were amazing.
It's legitimately fun to be going out with these guys and learning from them. Nick's outlook on women and social interaction that he presents throughout the weekend and embodies within himself is contagious, magnetic, and impossible not to adopt once you've taken it on and tried it in social settings. Simply put, it's the truth.
As somebody who has suffered from social anxiety for most of my life (I didn't even mention that to the instructors during the weekend because it is so embarrassing for me), this weekend opened my eyes to a world where there is literally no need for this condition. The simple prescriptions Nick gives seem TOO simple to accomplish all of this, but the results are absurdly apparent when you practice them in daily life. People are reacting to me so differently and wonderfully that I feel like an entirely different person.
I would highly recommend putting aside a weekend to work on something that will truly change your life for the better.
Nick and the other coaches push you playfully from night one to approach groups of people and women I never would have approached and hang in conversations that I would never normally hang in, and the results were amazing.
It's legitimately fun to be going out with these guys and learning from them. Nick's outlook on women and social interaction that he presents throughout the weekend and embodies within himself is contagious, magnetic, and impossible not to adopt once you've taken it on and tried it in social settings. Simply put, it's the truth.
As somebody who has suffered from social anxiety for most of my life (I didn't even mention that to the instructors during the weekend because it is so embarrassing for me), this weekend opened my eyes to a world where there is literally no need for this condition. The simple prescriptions Nick gives seem TOO simple to accomplish all of this, but the results are absurdly apparent when you practice them in daily life. People are reacting to me so differently and wonderfully that I feel like an entirely different person.
I would highly recommend putting aside a weekend to work on something that will truly change your life for the better.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
"Nick Sparks March Live Program"
Overall rating
10.0
Effectiveness
10.0
Ease of Implementation
10.0
Innovativeness
10.0
Packaging/ Customer Service
10.0
Value for Money
10.0
Reviewed by D.
April 10, 2014
April 10, 2014
Coaching/ Bootcamps Information
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
Nick Sparks
Date Program Took Place:
March 27, 2014
Since I took the course during March Madness, let's use basketball to describe Nick's program.
"If you keep too busy learning the tricks of the trade, you may never learn the trade." - John Wooden
Nick's training teaches the fundamentals of human interaction rather than a bunch of tricks and gimmicks. If you wanted to learn how to become a college or professional level basketball player would you want to go to a clinic run by the And 1 guys or Larry Brown/John Calipari/Coach K?
Fundamentals you will learn in the program:
1) Focus - how to intensely pay attention and actually LISTEN to what she is saying, respond to her, and how to dig deeper to get to know who she is rather than just jumping from topic to topic.
2) Distance - how to interact with people at an appropriate distance to create a sexual or friendship vibe
3) Polarity - how to change distances to increase and decrease energy.
Physical escalation which was my biggest fear is super easy for me because it is a natural progression from the things I learned about during the course.
Conversation is very simple after going through this course. You don't have to think about what you are going to say next. You don't have to try to impress her. The course gets you OUT OF YOUR HEAD and into the conversation so that you can feel what the other person is saying/feeling instead of trying to fill the gaps in the conversation with something funny, witty, and charismatic.
I highly recommend the program. I went from having a hard time approaching on Thursday because of hesitation and a feeling of wanting to show others that I was cool to making out with the least approachable (she looked like she wanted to punch someone in the face) girl on Saturday night.
I was even more impressed with the guys I took the course with. I saw a very introverted guy who rarely smiled on Thursday become a guy all the girls loved talking with. I saw a high energy guy become a sexy lady killer over the course of a weekend.
Best of all you get connected with a community of guys that are always willing to help. I have been in contact with Nick and the rest of his team almost on a daily basis since going through the training and I plan on going back for another round in the future.
"If you keep too busy learning the tricks of the trade, you may never learn the trade." - John Wooden
Nick's training teaches the fundamentals of human interaction rather than a bunch of tricks and gimmicks. If you wanted to learn how to become a college or professional level basketball player would you want to go to a clinic run by the And 1 guys or Larry Brown/John Calipari/Coach K?
Fundamentals you will learn in the program:
1) Focus - how to intensely pay attention and actually LISTEN to what she is saying, respond to her, and how to dig deeper to get to know who she is rather than just jumping from topic to topic.
2) Distance - how to interact with people at an appropriate distance to create a sexual or friendship vibe
3) Polarity - how to change distances to increase and decrease energy.
Physical escalation which was my biggest fear is super easy for me because it is a natural progression from the things I learned about during the course.
Conversation is very simple after going through this course. You don't have to think about what you are going to say next. You don't have to try to impress her. The course gets you OUT OF YOUR HEAD and into the conversation so that you can feel what the other person is saying/feeling instead of trying to fill the gaps in the conversation with something funny, witty, and charismatic.
I highly recommend the program. I went from having a hard time approaching on Thursday because of hesitation and a feeling of wanting to show others that I was cool to making out with the least approachable (she looked like she wanted to punch someone in the face) girl on Saturday night.
I was even more impressed with the guys I took the course with. I saw a very introverted guy who rarely smiled on Thursday become a guy all the girls loved talking with. I saw a high energy guy become a sexy lady killer over the course of a weekend.
Best of all you get connected with a community of guys that are always willing to help. I have been in contact with Nick and the rest of his team almost on a daily basis since going through the training and I plan on going back for another round in the future.
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2 of 3 people found the following review helpful
"Great kickstart to relationship basics"
Overall rating
9.2
Effectiveness
9.0
Ease of Implementation
10.0
Innovativeness
9.0
Packaging/ Customer Service
8.0
Value for Money
9.0
Reviewed by Wayne
April 02, 2014
April 02, 2014
Coaching/ Bootcamps Information
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
Nick Sparks
Date Program Took Place:
February 20, 2014
I was a little skeptical of Nick at first because he talked such a big game, but after being through the program I can tell you he's the real deal.
I think if anything my expectations were a little high for the experience. I was a little farther along my journey than some of the other guys there, but there was definitely a lot of useful stuff I learned. After being back in my regular life for some time now, I have noticed an improvement in both my interactions with and the quality of the girls I'm pursuing.
I would highly recommend this program for anyone who is struggling with that first hour of interacting with women.
I think if anything my expectations were a little high for the experience. I was a little farther along my journey than some of the other guys there, but there was definitely a lot of useful stuff I learned. After being back in my regular life for some time now, I have noticed an improvement in both my interactions with and the quality of the girls I'm pursuing.
I would highly recommend this program for anyone who is struggling with that first hour of interacting with women.
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0 of 0 people found the following review helpful
"The Beginning of Your Success"
Overall rating
9.0
Effectiveness
9.0
Ease of Implementation
8.0
Innovativeness
9.0
Packaging/ Customer Service
10.0
Value for Money
10.0
Reviewed by The Kyster
March 01, 2014
March 01, 2014
Coaching/ Bootcamps Information
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
Nick Sparks
Date Program Took Place:
February 20, 2014
Nick Sparks is a man who is full of empathy and passion for helping men become all they can be. From the trainings and role playing with the female coaches he works with, to the homework assignments and nightly seasons in bars and clubs, Nick is always focused on empowering you.
I don’t write reviews very often and I don’t believe in writing a long review trying to describe a remarkable weekend if I can’t do it justice. Some experiences just have to be experienced for themselves. You have to be open to wanting to improve and it does cost a lot (no more than most boot camps out there) but it is worth every penny. Nick offers life time coaching, which makes him unique in this field. He works with wonderful coaches who are all outgoing like he is. The other guys in the workshop will become like family, Nick is selective with who he chooses to work with and it shows.
The amount of effort required for the workshop to be successful for you will depend on you and the more you put into the weekend, the more you will get out of it. Nick’s methods may at times seem simple but he knows what he is talking about. While other programs will flood you with theory after theory and promote unrealistic promises, Nick won’t, he simply tells it like it is. With that being said, Nick’s passion can be a bit much to take in at times but you will never meet a more humble man who is as focused on and pumped for your success.
At the end of the workshop, you will have a clear plan of action and also the knowledge of what you need to work on in order to continue to succeed. This is only the beginning as Nick says on the last morning and he’s more than happy to be behind you every step of the way.
I don’t write reviews very often and I don’t believe in writing a long review trying to describe a remarkable weekend if I can’t do it justice. Some experiences just have to be experienced for themselves. You have to be open to wanting to improve and it does cost a lot (no more than most boot camps out there) but it is worth every penny. Nick offers life time coaching, which makes him unique in this field. He works with wonderful coaches who are all outgoing like he is. The other guys in the workshop will become like family, Nick is selective with who he chooses to work with and it shows.
The amount of effort required for the workshop to be successful for you will depend on you and the more you put into the weekend, the more you will get out of it. Nick’s methods may at times seem simple but he knows what he is talking about. While other programs will flood you with theory after theory and promote unrealistic promises, Nick won’t, he simply tells it like it is. With that being said, Nick’s passion can be a bit much to take in at times but you will never meet a more humble man who is as focused on and pumped for your success.
At the end of the workshop, you will have a clear plan of action and also the knowledge of what you need to work on in order to continue to succeed. This is only the beginning as Nick says on the last morning and he’s more than happy to be behind you every step of the way.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
"3rd time lucky.."
Overall rating
10.0
Effectiveness
10.0
Ease of Implementation
10.0
Innovativeness
10.0
Packaging/ Customer Service
10.0
Value for Money
10.0
Reviewed by Bennz
February 26, 2014
February 26, 2014
Coaching/ Bootcamps Information
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
Nick Sparks
Date Program Took Place:
February 20, 2014
The difference was night and day, I previously attended bootcamps with 2 other companies but this training was on another level. The professionalism, the genuine care for each student, the relevance of the material, the follow up support, the practicality and ease of implementation and Nick’s obvious passion for what he does was all outstanding.
Even the initial pre-training phone coaching sessions and assignments had me arriving at the training all ready getting hugely improved results in my social interactions, it was that good!
The weekend itself was well structured, no unnecessary long explanations and lectures. Nick brought in coaching assistants who were all experts in their field and they contributed immensely. Each exercise was well thought out and had practical applications that we all immediately implemented that day/night. And you can bet we all got results!!
The other participants were all exceptional guys, a result of Nick’s rigorous screening process! I made some great new friends. The sense of camaraderie with the team and the alumni group has been beyond expectations.
I fully recommend anyone with a sincere desire to improve their social life and build genuine connection with people to attend this life altering event.
Even the initial pre-training phone coaching sessions and assignments had me arriving at the training all ready getting hugely improved results in my social interactions, it was that good!
The weekend itself was well structured, no unnecessary long explanations and lectures. Nick brought in coaching assistants who were all experts in their field and they contributed immensely. Each exercise was well thought out and had practical applications that we all immediately implemented that day/night. And you can bet we all got results!!
The other participants were all exceptional guys, a result of Nick’s rigorous screening process! I made some great new friends. The sense of camaraderie with the team and the alumni group has been beyond expectations.
I fully recommend anyone with a sincere desire to improve their social life and build genuine connection with people to attend this life altering event.
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"Truely unique experience"
Overall rating
10.0
Effectiveness
10.0
Ease of Implementation
10.0
Innovativeness
10.0
Packaging/ Customer Service
10.0
Value for Money
10.0
Reviewed by GW
February 26, 2014
February 26, 2014
Coaching/ Bootcamps Information
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
Nick Sparks
Date Program Took Place:
February 20, 2014
Nick's program is in my opinion the most unique program out there. It is designed to discover those crucial elements which one has been doing wrong, yet was never aware of in his entire life time. Nick and his team are very experienced in spotting these problems and come up with the most effective solution right away.
During my weekend program in New York, I was constantly challenged. There was never one moment, when I was not thrilled by the exercises and realisation of how I can improve socially as a personal. This program does not just improve your interaction with women but also can potentially shape you into a better, more confident person for the years to come.
All successful systems and methodologies in history share one thing in common - simplicity. Nick's system is one of them. There was no witty lines to be remembered, no complicated stage calibration to be employed and all you will be taught is that one or two essences which are tailored made for you to massively improve you social interaction.
During my weekend program in New York, I was constantly challenged. There was never one moment, when I was not thrilled by the exercises and realisation of how I can improve socially as a personal. This program does not just improve your interaction with women but also can potentially shape you into a better, more confident person for the years to come.
All successful systems and methodologies in history share one thing in common - simplicity. Nick's system is one of them. There was no witty lines to be remembered, no complicated stage calibration to be employed and all you will be taught is that one or two essences which are tailored made for you to massively improve you social interaction.
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"Nick Sparks is an amazing dating coach"
Overall rating
10.0
Effectiveness
10.0
Ease of Implementation
10.0
Innovativeness
10.0
Packaging/ Customer Service
10.0
Value for Money
10.0
Reviewed by Jonas Johnson
December 28, 2013
December 28, 2013
Coaching/ Bootcamps Information
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
Nick Sparks
Date Program Took Place:
December 12, 2013
Nick breaks down the process of meeting women into a way that can be implemented by anyone. I did not know what to expect when I first arrived to NYC for the coaching program but Nick has created an easy to follow process to help you change your habits. Nick's program walks you through the building blocks of interacting with women. During the day you work with Nick on skills and then in the evening you hit town to practice what you have learned during the day. During the evening Nick gives you real-time feedback on how you are interacting with women so that you can instantly correct the areas that need adjustment.
Nick truly invests into making a difference in the lives of every person he works with. He teaches you to make emotional connections with women that are genuine and special so that you can escalate your interactions to a whole new level. Based on my experience, Nick's coaching program will leave you with a totally new perspective on how to interact with women. You will instantly see a change in how women react when you approach and interact with them. At the end of the day when you implement everything that Nick teaches you, the reaction you will get from women is truly amazing.
If you are looking for a change in how you interact with women, then contact Nick Sparks.
Nick truly invests into making a difference in the lives of every person he works with. He teaches you to make emotional connections with women that are genuine and special so that you can escalate your interactions to a whole new level. Based on my experience, Nick's coaching program will leave you with a totally new perspective on how to interact with women. You will instantly see a change in how women react when you approach and interact with them. At the end of the day when you implement everything that Nick teaches you, the reaction you will get from women is truly amazing.
If you are looking for a change in how you interact with women, then contact Nick Sparks.
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0 of 0 people found the following review helpful
"One Year Out"
Overall rating
9.6
Effectiveness
10.0
Ease of Implementation
9.0
Innovativeness
9.0
Packaging/ Customer Service
10.0
Value for Money
10.0
Reviewed by Joey
December 25, 2013
December 25, 2013
Coaching/ Bootcamps Information
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
Nick Sparks
Date Program Took Place:
September 14, 2012
It’s been one year since my Bootcamp with Nick. I’m happy to say the last 12 months have been amazing. I’m 3 months into a great job, have an awesome girlfriend, and have even seen relationships with my family improve. Overall, the quality of my interactions and the resulting confidence has touched all areas of my life. Upon reflection, a lot of it stems back to what Nick taught me in NYC.
We all know the saying: the devil‘s in the details. Well the details are where I see the most change. I’m talking about making eye contact and saying “hi” to people passing me in the hall, having a strong presence when walking into a bar, or simply keeping my mouth shut and actually LISTENING to what others have to say. They’re the little things that aren’t actually so little. While I would rarely do them last year, I now do them out of habit.
The weekend with Nick opened me up to those details and gave me the tools to improve them. By the end of the weekend, I wasn’t naturally doing this stuff. But I knew my problem areas and I knew how to correct them. More importantly, I was given the confidence to continue growing. It’s one thing to have Nick at the barstool next to you, but it’s another to be back on your own. However, that’s a jump we all have to make and the experiences from the weekend helped me make it. My nerves were still there, but when I told myself “hey, I did this 100 times in NYC with Nick,” I was able to get over those hurdles.
Going out and pushing to improve myself has been a transformational journey. But here’s my favorite part of the program: I’m still the same guy! Although I gained social skills and confidence, the person I am has never changed. Nick didn’t teach me to be someone else. He didn’t give me a goofy hat to wear and a line to spout off. Rather, he showed me how to be a better me. And that’s what I’m most grateful for.
I’m thrilled with the past year, excited to see what comes next, and know Nick will be in my corner the entire way. If you want to see a permanent improvement in your life, I’m one of many who would recommend this program. It’s one of the best decisions you could make.
We all know the saying: the devil‘s in the details. Well the details are where I see the most change. I’m talking about making eye contact and saying “hi” to people passing me in the hall, having a strong presence when walking into a bar, or simply keeping my mouth shut and actually LISTENING to what others have to say. They’re the little things that aren’t actually so little. While I would rarely do them last year, I now do them out of habit.
The weekend with Nick opened me up to those details and gave me the tools to improve them. By the end of the weekend, I wasn’t naturally doing this stuff. But I knew my problem areas and I knew how to correct them. More importantly, I was given the confidence to continue growing. It’s one thing to have Nick at the barstool next to you, but it’s another to be back on your own. However, that’s a jump we all have to make and the experiences from the weekend helped me make it. My nerves were still there, but when I told myself “hey, I did this 100 times in NYC with Nick,” I was able to get over those hurdles.
Going out and pushing to improve myself has been a transformational journey. But here’s my favorite part of the program: I’m still the same guy! Although I gained social skills and confidence, the person I am has never changed. Nick didn’t teach me to be someone else. He didn’t give me a goofy hat to wear and a line to spout off. Rather, he showed me how to be a better me. And that’s what I’m most grateful for.
I’m thrilled with the past year, excited to see what comes next, and know Nick will be in my corner the entire way. If you want to see a permanent improvement in your life, I’m one of many who would recommend this program. It’s one of the best decisions you could make.
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" Nick makes it simple"
Overall rating
9.3
Effectiveness
9.0
Ease of Implementation
9.0
Innovativeness
10.0
Packaging/ Customer Service
10.0
Value for Money
9.0
Reviewed by James s.
December 21, 2013
December 21, 2013
Coaching/ Bootcamps Information
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
Nick Sparks
Date Program Took Place:
December 12, 2013
Take it from some one who has spent a lot of effort learning about this subject and has read and viewed info from many of these guys. ONLY NICK TEACHES THIS. He makes it simple and natural. I learned so much and grew tremendously. No tools. No tricks. No "seduction". Rather he is teaching you a way of being that is fully masculine and makes vaginas moist. Reading the signals and then escalating sexually and defining the relationship on my terms.
The most shocking thing about the whole experience was the realization that this is SO MUCH BIGGER than dating or talking to women. The experience gave me skills that are having effects on other aspects of life.
I am a more powerful person as a whole.
If you go to the live coaching, you will approach and hopefully connect with the most beautiful women in the world. You might get lucky enough to meet his amazing assistant coach, and you will learn about shit that will change your entire life.
Best money I have ever spent.
The most shocking thing about the whole experience was the realization that this is SO MUCH BIGGER than dating or talking to women. The experience gave me skills that are having effects on other aspects of life.
I am a more powerful person as a whole.
If you go to the live coaching, you will approach and hopefully connect with the most beautiful women in the world. You might get lucky enough to meet his amazing assistant coach, and you will learn about shit that will change your entire life.
Best money I have ever spent.
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"Nick is A Bad Ass "
Overall rating
9.5
Effectiveness
9.0
Ease of Implementation
9.0
Innovativeness
10.0
Packaging/ Customer Service
10.0
Value for Money
10.0
Reviewed by Derek
November 27, 2013
November 27, 2013
Coaching/ Bootcamps Information
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
Nick Sparks
Date Program Took Place:
November 21, 2013
I first heard about the Social Man program through a friend and I was pretty tired of having dates go poorly or not being able to attract girls I was interested in and I was interested in getting some dating help. But I wasn’t ready to take the plunge, I kept making excuses like I couldn’t take time away from work, New York is expensive, insert whatever reason so I didn’t to confront what I was afraid of.
Then one day it hit me, interacting with women never goes away. Whether you meet the love of your life tomorrow or choose to remain a bachelor forever, you will interact with women at work, in restaurants, out in public, whatever.
One on one coaching was outstanding, Nick was able to provide intimate and immediate feedback and it made HUGE difference, within minutes the subtle cues were making me more and more successful with each group of women I interacted with. It was really staggering the difference such a short time can make.
Again Thanks Nick and Stay Classy Me Friend
Derek
Then one day it hit me, interacting with women never goes away. Whether you meet the love of your life tomorrow or choose to remain a bachelor forever, you will interact with women at work, in restaurants, out in public, whatever.
One on one coaching was outstanding, Nick was able to provide intimate and immediate feedback and it made HUGE difference, within minutes the subtle cues were making me more and more successful with each group of women I interacted with. It was really staggering the difference such a short time can make.
Again Thanks Nick and Stay Classy Me Friend
Derek
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