#96 What Women Need in Marriage and Examining the Merits of Marriage with Shaunti Feldhahn

#96 What Women Need in Marriage and Examining the Merits of Marriage with Shaunti Feldhahn

#96 What Women Need in Marriage and Examining the Merits of Marriage with Shaunti Feldhahn

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Today is about advice that comes from surveys on women - using actual national census statistics-like methods and approaches to understand how women think about sex, relationships, and dating, etc.

So, it's another approach to try and get at the real truth. The surveys used are actually designed by census experts, decision analysts, and companies. This is obviously something we haven't look at before and it's going to provide a new, pretty awesome perspective.

Today's guest is Shaunti Feldhahn. She's an ex-analyst from Wall Street and she's really got a background in economics and analysis, rather than the traditional things that we've had on the show, perhaps like psychology and so on. It's actually pretty similar to my background in management consulting. So a bit more of an analytical, rational look at this subject.

She has a number of best-selling books behind her. She has sold over 2 million copies of them in 21 different languages worldwide since 2004. So they are really successful. The one for men that looks at the inner lives of women is called For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women and was last revised in 2013.

Now the context she's coming from is really a context from strong family values and monogamous relationships. Another thing to mention about her is that she comes from a strong Christian background, and I know that we have a lot of Christian listeners out there. We haven't had any discussion about religion, or had anyone that comes from that kind of background, but I know that you guys are out there. And of course, a large percentage of the population of women are Christians. So the ones you're going to meet, they're going to be Christian also.

It is yet another important perspective that you should get and Shaunti helps to bring that perspective also in this interview.

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Specifically, in this episode you'll learn about:

  • How Shaunti's path changed from the economics and financial world into the relationship world: discovering the real thoughts of men (06:33)
  • Shaunti's background and perspective in the relationship arena compared to other writers (10:46)
  • Shaunti's approach and using surveys to determine communication statistics between men and women, and applying it to relationships (12:20)
  • Developing surveys compared to other existing information (17:20)
  • Survey-based data versus physiological-based data (19:30)
  • The biggest concerns from women regarding relationships, and focusing on 'presence' and listening, while filtering out the problem (22:45)
  • How easy is it for women to not feel loved? What a woman needs to know in a relationship (36:00)
  • What your wife or girlfriend doesn't know about you, and you don't know about you either (39:15)
  • Shaunti's highlights regarding her work in marriage, and addressing the divorce rate (46:55)
  • How to connect with Shaunti to learn more about her and her work (51:50)
  • Recommendations for high quality advice (52:09)
  • Top recommendation for guys starting from scratch in relationships (52:09)
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