#83 Making Relationships Work Over the Long Term with Scot McKay

#83 Making Relationships Work Over the Long Term with Scot McKay

#83 Making Relationships Work Over the Long Term with Scot McKay

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Scot McKay Bio X & Y Communications Company
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Today we're talking about relationships - making them sustainable, making them last long. Once you get into a relationship, you really want a great one. Not that kind of character relationship that dies after a few years. As we all know, the divorce rate is crazy these days and a lot of relationships don't last. So how do we make a relationship continue the way that it started, a really great sustainable relationship?

On the show, we have someone who is basically doing that. We have Scot McKay from X & Y Communications. He's been married to Emily McKay for eight years now and they have kids, and a great family. They're extremely happy together. The thing about Scot is that he's been a dating coach much longer than he's been married, and he continues to be a dating coach, even though he's married, and teach guys how to meet women, and so on.

Obviously, his experience in his own life is going to affect that and it's obviously a strength in his life. He has a great relationship with a woman who he is married to and that is not a typical thing for a lot of the dating coaches, whether it's because of age or because of what they are interested in; the kind of lifestyle they are interested in.

I asked Scot to come onto the show to talk about his experiences and what he's learned, because that really is his strength.

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Specifically, in this episode you'll learn about:

  • The type of relationship Scot is currently involved in: marriage and family life (02:40)
  • Seeing the value in building yourself and ideas to get guys motivated to see that long-term value (08:30)
  • How to make relationships work over the long term and the biggest challenges (20:00)
  • What does leadership look like on a daily basis in a relationship? (25:34)
  • Taking responsibility for your own happiness instead of putting that responsibility on the woman you are with (35:33)
  • Navigating conflicts and arguments in a way that is healthy for a relationship (37:53)
  • Setting boundaries for a healthy relationship (42:50)
  • Avoid creating an environment in which a woman feels she is being judged throughout that relationship (48:30)
  • Scot's perspective on recommending high quality advice in dating, sex, and relationships (50:15)
  • Top three recommendations to help men get results as fast as possible (to get started) with women in this area, and improve it (52:43)
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Items Mentioned in this Episode include:

  • David DeAngelo: Scot mentioned David DeAngelo and his company Double Your Dating in reference to the philosophy of continuing to turn your woman on the way you did when you first met.

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