Interview Series Vol. 6 Identity

 
Interview Series Vol. 6 Identity

Dating Company: Love Systems

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Just Average - Ambitious Topic for Short Interview and Not Well Structured

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Angel Donovan
Last updated: April 08, 2010
 
The Good: Importance of an identity and how it relates to what you do today conveyed well, 'spirit' conveyed by coaches in audio is motivational and useful to learn the correct mindset
The Bad: Practical details and guidelines to help you implement are lacking, not very well structured, too much chit chat and joking around between coaches, ambitious subject for a short interview
The Bottom Line: If you want to learn more about inner game, and specifically your identity, but not spend the money for a full program like The Blueprint Decoded this audio is an option to get you started. However, expect to have to use other dating advice to really make use of it.

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To address the theme of Identity (who you are and who you convey yourself as - an aspect of inner game) in an hour long interview session is ambitious. And the result is reflected in that. The product lacks the detail and depth to really teach you the subject of Identity and enable you to implement it properly.

The topic "How to dress for your identity" is covered briefly and "When and what to change in your life to be your best self" not in much depth. If you are interested in buying the product for these points in particular, keep that in mind.

Lack of Structure and Informality Waste Time
The interview touches on a variety of themes around identity, with some good material, however it is not well structured. Most of the content, in fact, is informally related and unstructured. This is made worse by the fact that there is a fair amount of chit chat and joking made between the coaches in the interview.

In some interviews from Love Systems this isn't a problem, but given that it was ambitious to cover the subject well already in a short time, this lack of structure and informality further limits the value delivered in the interview.

The only part which really attempted to introduce some structure for someone to easily follow was a piece on how to develop your 'Grounding Routine'. This is what you communicate to women to establish your identity with them. The "Grounding Routine" is one of Mystery's original innovations, and it was disappointingly not discussed in great detail here.

Good Foundation on What Building an Identity is All About
The interview does give you a good foundational basis in what you have to work on in order to build a strong identity and why it is important to attract women. However, the relatively haphazard way in which themes are discussed (because of lack of structure) and only a minimal of practical detail and recommendations make it harder to implement. Inner game themes such as identity are not the easiest things to learn - so more practical detail is necessary to help men really apply the advice.
Coaches Conveying the Right Attitude
A great point of this interview is the motivational value of it. All of the coaches in the audio talk with passion about what they are saying. They really demonstrate that they believe in it, and this is an important aspect of what someone trying to build their identity and make it work with women needs to understand. Both passion and enthusiasm are main topics in the audio, and they are related well by the coaches. If you buy it, pay attention to how they communicate their passions. This in itself is an angle you should be studying.
The Bottom Line
The content in this audio remains mostly in the abstract. The importance of an identity and how it relates to what you do today are conveyed pretty well. For the price of this product, I would've expected a more 'professional' finish to it - with more work done on structure beforehand.

If you have a serious interest in learning "inner game and confidence" and more about identity, Real Social Dynamic's The Blueprint Decoded is the most comprehensive product. Vin DiCarlo's The Attraction Code gives a good introduction into it for beginners. In the case of The Attraction Code, since it is an ebook, keep in mind that it is has the disadvantage of you reading and not hearing (as with this product) or seeing full video (as with The Blueprint Decoded) to understand the subleties of inner game which are conveyed well by the coaches.

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Product Information

Dating Skillset:
Inner Game/ Confidence
Dating Company:
Love Systems
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Experience Level(s):
Beginner•Intermediate
Dating Coach/ Author:
FutureSinn (Jonathan Lee)Tenmagnet

Learning Format:
Download (Audio)
$39.97
Release / Launch Date:
August 01, 2006


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Summary:
Your Identity is a conglomeration of who you are, what you do and what you say. This volume teaches you how to coherently use these tools to build an Identity that is attractive to women, no matter who you are, by emphasizing your strengths, making the changes in your life as needed and utilizing the principles of Love Systems to be your best self.

Table of Contents/ List of Topics Covered:
- How to use and present what's interesting in your life for attracting women
- Using your Identity to screen for the girls you want
- How to dress for your Identity
- When and what to change in your life to be your best self


What You Get:
An Audio download


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8 week full money back return policy.


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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful

Strong Topics Discussed Theoretically as Well as Tactically

The Good This volume was recorded at the Chicago Special Bootcamp, one week before I attended Tenmagnet's Mystery Method Comprehensive Bootcamp. From my bootcamp, I learned that Tenmagnet was a young guy but had an extremely strong identity. Listening to this CD, all three instructors have solid identities and are young. This is important to me as I realized that youth is not a limiting factor for achieving exactly what you want to do with your life, or at least have the ambition crafted and strived for so that it may be realistically attained within a period of a few years. Here, the instructors emphasized why identity is central not only to Mystery Method, but also to life, and they talk about multiple ways to build and convey your identity as well as to ground it to a woman's reality in a step-by-step fashion (your personal grounding routine used in Comfort).
The Bad Here's another CD where the instructors are having such a blast discussing the topics that they trip over each other and this makes it rather annoying to pay attention to any given instructor. Sometimes, I found that thoughts and sentences were left unfinished as a result of this.
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Rating out of 10: 9/10 for presentation and organization. Strong topics discussed theoretically as well as tactically, aside from a few jokes that deter from the topics. 10/10 for content. Another Mystery Method CD related to inner game which is extremely important to me as I've been working extensively on outer game too much lately and ignoring who I should be conveying in set. 10/10 for production quality. No weird scraping sounds, no microphonic feedback, and no background noise like some of the other CDs makes it easy enough to listen to the instructors (aside from when they interrupt each other on occasion).

Originally posted on the Attraction Forums. Reproduced with permission.
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November 06, 2006
 
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I never realized identity was so important!

Sinn and Tenmagnet really go in depth on this topic. I never really sat down and asked myself who I am or looked at my clothing, friends, and life stories from an outside prospective before this. I realized I should not be embarrassed by my hobbies or interests, or be afraid to discuss my dreams, goals, or passions. It is actually extremely attractive to women. Even something like sci-fi (which I love, most girls dont), as long as you are enthusiastic and excited when speaking she will be too. With no money to spend on clothes I simply rearranged my wardrobe and picked up few things from the thrift store. Upped by game and gained a lot more confidence.
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This CD was a Bless

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Lately I've been going on the inner game path and wanted to find out what foundations I needed. I stumbled on the idea of identity when I saw the Pickup Artist show where they started with the idea of identity. It totally slipped my process of becoming a more attractive man because when I started out 6 months ago I went straight away with approaching and memorizing routines. I started peacocking and dressing better, but for some reason the girls never knew exactly who I was. As of late this changed because I started grounding myself better. Unfortunately there isn't much information out in the community on identity and grounding, so this CD was a bless.

I can advise everyone to take notes of these interview series CDs because you will pickup a lot more valuable information than listening 10x to it (like I used to do).

Out of this CD I really got what an identity is and foremost why it is important to have a strong identity. Your identity is not necessarily your job/occupation, this is something I thought it was. It's something far more than that and they go over how to display your identity. It can be done through stories, props, clothing, and social circle.

In almost every set, when you've attracted the girl, she will start to ask "what do you do?" The bad thing is to straight away answer with your job, because it doesn't tell the girl anything who YOU really are. Also, if you have an unattractive identity you can frame it in way that it seems attractive without lying (imho you should never have to lie in set).

Another important aspect of identity is attracting the girl with your fashion. I didn't know that your identity displayed through your fashion can actually be used as a false disqualifier. Congruence is very important and that is the reason we cannot all peacock like Mystery because it has to match your identity. If you're a finance freak then you shouldn't peacock with painted nails, you get the idea. BradP, not on this CD, also has some good stuff on this with sexual stereotyping your identity.

How do you construct a grounding routine? There is very little information on this but you can find some pointers on this CD. This one of the most important parts of your game, grounding. If you can't do it, then the girl will never know who you are and she won't be able to brag/tell her friend who you are.

The advice Sinn, Future, and Tenmagnet give really apply to life and they should make you a better person. Thus a more attractive man that women want to be around with.

After listening to this CD and taking notes, I had some epiphanies and made me realize a lot of stuff. It's that good. "Live your life"

Originally posted on the Attraction Forums. Reproduced with permission.
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June 26, 2008
 
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Can't Wait to Get More

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I came late into the series so I was pretty interested how my first listen would be. I have nothing to compare it too, but the audio quality of the CD could have been better, but its the content that matters, right?
The CD talked about how a strong identity brings her into your world, and she as a result will want to become a part of it. Also, that what you do for a job has nothing to do with what is deep in your core and who you are as a person. All and all, I would give it 8/10. Audio could have been better and more examples of how to convey a strong identity would have been better. Cant wait to get more

Originally posted on the Attraction Forums. Reproduced with permission.
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September 18, 2006
 
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