Whether it's merely physical or it's a manifestion of deeper feelings that we have for the other person, making love is something that we all long for. But, the fact remains that while many want to have sex, there are very very few who know how to have good sex.
Good sex is a very important aspect in a relationship. Many couples end up breaking up purely because of sexual incompatibilities. Given this, it is very important that you learn about your partner's needs.
There is a key principle that is the secret behind how to have good sex with women. That is they need FANTASY. Women are different to men, and sex is a lot more psychological for them. They like to fantasize about it, that is what turns them on far more than the actual physical acts.
In order to leverage FANTASY to vastly improve your sex life with your girl introduce some of these elements:
- 1. Get naughty and blindfold her. Remember that the most important sexual organ is not the one between your legs, it is the brain. When a sense is hindered, the other senses work to compensate through the brain. Blindfolding your girlfriend increases her sensory awareness. The state of not knowing what to expect can increase her sexual desires. You can get creative by teasing her mercilessly with toys like feathers, tongues, or rings.
- 2. Play dress up. When you have been together for a long time, you need to come up with new ways to make sex feel like brand new all the time. Step out of the role of being “yourself.” Instead, play the role of someone else. She can be a nurse. You can be a construction worker. Let your minds wander and portray the role of your fantasies. Role playing does not only result to better sex. It also gives you the chance to have fun with your partner in a sexy way.
- 3. Play games. Adult stripping is a fun way to get your partner naked. You can even come up with your own rules as you wish. If she loses, she gets a consequence. You can ask her to do something for you – something that you may not have done yet before. Games usually lead to hot sex in the end.
- 4. Talk dirty. Dirty talk is a huge turn on to both sexes. As mentioned, our brains are the largest sexual organs. We respond to words instantly because words evoke sensations. Dirty talking can increase blood flow to different parts of the body. Bonus tip for men: Women are very susceptible to words so if you want to make the most of it, you better learn how to choose the right words.
- 5. Find a new place. Finding a new place for sex can lead to more exciting activities and thus, better sex. Take risks! You can even try doing it with people around. Always bear in mind that there are a lot of other places to have sex other than your bed.
It is not easy to maintain a good sex life. It needs time and effort and if you and your partner have busy schedules to deal with every day, you might have to double your effort to make things work your way.
As a man today there are today vast amounts of scientifically proven principles to meeting, attracting, dating and deepening relationships with women. And, yes, also on how to have good sex.
