Buying coaching services and getting the value you want from them is more complicated than other products because of the interpersonal nature of them. Having said that, coaching is by far the quickest and most effective way to improve your dating skills. This has been proven time and time again by the success of students of dating masters. Style, himself, was only able to develop his skillset so fast through personal coaching from some of the leading masters of the time (Mystery, Ross Jeffries, etc.).

In this article we outline principles of best practice for users who are interested in buying coaching products. First, however, we need to explain the value you can expect from these services.

Buying coaching services and getting the value you want from them is more complicated than other products because of the interpersonal nature of them. Having said that, coaching is by far the quickest and most effective way to improve your dating skills. This has been proven time and time again by the success of students of dating masters. Style, himself, was only able to develop his skillset so fast through personal coaching from some of the leading masters of the time (Mystery, Ross Jeffries, etc.).

In this article we outline principles of best practice for users who are interested in buying coaching products. First, however, we need to explain the value you can expect from these services.

What You Get When You Buy Coaching

There are four determinants of the value you will get when buying coaching from dating advice companies:

  • 1. The companies dating intellectual property: In coaching sessions instructors will present you with, discuss and provide you with their company's specific intellectual property. Most companies have a specific approach o method to pick-up and dating which they teach exclusively.
  • 2. An instructors mentoring and teaching abilities: The quality of instruction varies massively between different instructors, even in the same company. One instructor in a company may be exceptional and bringing out change in his students, while others may be completely ineffective. Coaching is a soft-skillset in itself.
  • 3. The instructor to student ratio: No matter how good the instructor, if he is coaching six students at the same time you will not get as much value as when he is coaching you on a 1-to-1 basis. The higher the instructor to student ratio the less personalized feedback you are likely to get, and the more generic recommendations you will receive.
  • 4. Bonus Products: Some companies provide students on their bootcamps and coaching sessions with copies of some of their products (either in advance to prepare them for the bootcamp with a basic understanding of the knowledge they will need to use) or afterwards to reinforce their understanding of what they have learned on the bootcamp.

Best Practice Principles Before you Buy

Prospective buyers of coaching services should follow these principles to ensure they get the most value from the experience:

  • 1. Research the intellectual property of the company: What is taught on the bootcamp? How does it differ from other companies? Does their style and philosophy fit your aspirations of dating mastery? DSR editor reviews of coaching products provide information on the intellectual property taught by each company and coaching product.
  • 2. Research and choose a good instructor: Choosing a good instructor is essential to getting value. DSR editors cannot evaluate instructors since we don't participate in coaching sessions. However, DSR user reviews of coaching sessions identify the instructor that the user had specifically. Every user review relates specifically to an instructor as a consequence and should be viewed in that light.

Best Practice Principles for the Coaching Session

To get the most out of your coaching you should do the following:

1. Identify your sticking points before you go to the coaching sessions

2. Study the company's IP and approach to pick-up / dating before you go. If possible, you should try to actively implement it - this way you will know where you have difficulties in its application from real personal experience. This is a must. Only this way can you ask your coach the right questions during the coachign session and help him to help you quickly.