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You don’t say why you believe she ‘likes’ you. I’ll assume that she is friendly when you see her or that she used to like you.
Keep things simple. To know if a girl is interested look at her ‘actions’, at her ‘behavior’. Not what she says.
People, and women even more so, will say things to keep the situation 'comfortable' and avoid conflict. So you shouldn't place any importance on what people say if their actions don't mirror it.
Ask yourself this question: Is she moving towards me with her behavior? Or away from me?
For some cultures this is a little more complicated, for example, in Asia where you get less signs of interest from girls because they are less proactive. But even in those cases when you learn to focus on ‘listening to their behavior’ you will see the signs, either positive (moving towards you) or negative (moving away from you).
Keep this in mind: “Your actions speak so loud, I can hardly hear you.” Many guys don’t want to look at the truth, that a girl is just not interested, because it hurts their egos. They don’t want to face up to that pain. But to move forward, and get better with women you have to see reality for what it is. Otherwise you can’t change it. Beware of clinging to tiny irrelevant signals that she may like you – it’s not complicated.
If a girl is not taking your calls she simply isn’t interested or there is a reason ‘blocking’ her from being receptive to you. For example, having a boyfriend. It amounts to the same. It’s not moving forward.
The Bottom Line: She is ‘moving away from you’. Let this girl go. Get out, get social and find someone else.
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