First, tell us about your first cold approach.

Then state what you learned from it.

The first cold approach that I can remember was pretty bad. I had just heard about the 3 second rule, which states that you must approach a girl you notice within 3 seconds, before you have time to make excuses.

So I saw her at the sky train station, waiting for the train. 3 seconds. I walked up to her, opened my mouth, and had nothing to say: "Hi, umm... hey"

When I realized I didn't know what I was doing, I got really nervous and I imagine my body language totally showed it. I could tell she was getting nervous too, probably coz she saw my nervousness.

The train came, we got on, stood in awkwardly. I tried to have a conversation with her, but everything I said was lame and nervous. Very uncomfortable.

I learned:

1) Have a few default things to say if your gonna use the 3 second rule

2) Approach more, so it feels less awkward, and thus, you can think clearly, instead of focusing on your own awkward feelings.

heres the thing, whatever we men FEEL , women also feel! so theres no hiding anything, period, ever!
open book theory. so if you are uncomfortable, so is she.

is her radience is so strong, it makes you short circuit, when she sees and feels that you are emotionally blown out and cant handle her, period end of story and no blow job for you. shes being put up on a pedastle by that reaction of fear you got, (we got) and the fear demonstrates you cant handler her radiance.

all i can say is, when you are present , in your body, find the tensions, relax them, be aware of them, you move forward. furthermore, your sexual attraction--do NOT suppress those feelings or any other feelings. because--get this, when you DONT Feel them, any thing, they too ALSO dont feel it.

they are mirrors of feelings to us. they are tunning forks, and feel what you feel. so simple

Yeah, Stefano, I'm glad u brought that up. I should add a couple more to the Things I Learned:

3) Relax mentally and physically. Be comfortable.