Ep. #29 From Basic to Advanced Conversation Skills - with Stephan Erdman
 

Ep. #29 From Basic to Advanced Conversation Skills - with Stephan Erdman

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In this interview with Stephan Erdman we cover:

  • How routines (or pick up lines) can sabotage your results with women (especially over the long term) (2:00).
  • Story from Angel's past on using routines to pick up women in the year 2003 (3:50).
  • An alternative to preplanned routines - "natural routines" learned in the field (6:30).
  • The power of spontaneity in conversations (9:30).
  • How to avoid 'drying up' and not having anything to say in conversations (11:50).
  • Got "approach anxiety"? Let's talk about tools that you can use to get past it and build internal confidence so that it slowly disappears (14:00).
  • The three easy steps to learning a practical skill (21:00).
  • Examples of "Reacting Out Loud" - a tool to get out of situations where you don't know what to say (22:00).
  • A walkthrough of the three easy steps to learning a practical skill - using "Reacting Out Loud" examples and practice (25:00).
  • Spontaneity = Authenticity. (27:00).
  • The hidden pitfall of not being authentic. Like Attracts Like - What type of women do you want to be attracted to you? (29:00).
  • A different perspective on what the end goal of learning conversation and sting skills is - "Become More Alive and Enjoying Life" (30:00).
  • How long should you continue to use "conversation tools"? (32:30).
  • The essential ingredient to developing a real relationship with a woman. Building deeper rapport with great women. (38:20).
  • A simple technique to build deeper rapport with a woman that acts on the subconscious level with examples of how it affects women and us (40:00).
  • It's all about making it EASY mentally. Breaking down language to understand its impact in our communications. Some extreme examples between different languages are given to show how important common language is to making connecting with new people effortless. (45:00).

    • Links to Videos Mentioned in the Podcast

  • The "Talk First Think Later" Concept
  • How to implement any "social skill" in 3 steps

Dating Advice from Stephan Erdman

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