Carlos Xuma

 
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma
Carlos Xuma was one of the first dating coaches to emphasize improving yourself and your lifestyle, being comfortable with your masculinity and working on confidence and other aspects of inner game in order to get more success with women. He has been active in the dating advice community since the early 2000's and has created several dating advice programs and books.

Wiki Contents

  1. Personal Data
  2. Trademark Advice & Quotes
  3. Biography
  4. Proof of Carlos Xuma's Skills
  5. Books, Courses and Coaching by Carlos Xuma with their Editor and User Ratings

Personal Data

Commercial Alias Name: Carlos Xuma

Real Name: Carlos Demeco

Nationality: American

Date of Birth: May 01, 1974 (Age 39)

Height: 5"10

Profession(s): Pick Up Artist (PUA)Dating CoachDating Author

Affiliated Dating Companies: Dating Dynamics

Web Presences

Twitter profile: @carlosxuma

Trademark Advice & Quotes

Carlos believes that many of the problems that men experience in dating are due to the socialization they undergo from a young age in which they are taught to suppress their natural masculine tendencies. In his teachings he puts the focus on self-confidence which he believes is built upon self-esteem (how worthy a man feels he his), self-image (how he can imagine himself behaving and acting) and self-confidence (how sure he about his world and his abilities). In addition he teaches about three things that make a man attractive to a woman; self-discipline, self-confidence and a sense of humor.

"One thing that is critical for developing the type of attraction that will lead to your eventual seduction success is learning how to build and nurture the sexual tension between you".

"Independent, secure singles don't seek other people's approval. They can stand alone and separate of their opinion, and it doesn't ruffle their feathers if someone doesn't like something they did or said."

"Don't be afraid of that tension. Feed off it and escalate it. This will make the difference between the person that walks away with the sweet taste of an attractive single on his lips... or the bland and disappointing taste of their "friendship”."

"The single behavior that shoots down more potential relationships and is completely under your control is .... coming on to a woman too strong."

"Guys are trying to be “easy going” and cool, but they’re actually being perceived as weak-kneed little girls."

"The great thing about taking initiative is that by doing this, you actually demonstrate two other POWERFUL traits that draw women in like moths to a flame: Ambition and Power."

"SHOCK someone… Be different. Ask yourself: How alive are you willing to be? Dare to live your life on your own terms, and you’ll feel a sense of liberation and Alpha Masculinity that will open up a new world to you."

"What I advise is that you should never rely *ONLY* on memorized routines. That’s when you’re fake, and women won’t respond to it. Be REAL with women and you’ll have much more success. And let’s be clear: this is NOT the same thing as just be yourself."

Biography

Personal Life

Carlos was born in 1974 and has a background in sales and management and is a long time practitioner of martial arts (in which he has attained a black belt).

Pickup Artist Career

Carlos describes himself as being fairly successful with women from an early age although he didn't know how he was achieving his success. He went through a slump in which he lost all of his abilities which prompted him to start researching the psychology of attraction. Carlos started reading mainstream resources as well as controversial non-mainstream resources about dating and pick-up. After realizing that there wasn't much of value he decided to go out and experiment in his own life.

Through observation of naturally skilled men and personal experimentation Carlos was able to formulate theories about what makes a man a so called 'alpha' and what traits attract women on a deep instinctual level.

Proof of Carlos Xuma's Skills

Carlos has been photographed with many women over the years.

Books, Courses and Coaching by Carlos Xuma

  • 1.  7 Principles of Seduction  (January 01, 2001)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 2.  Alpha Conversation and Persuasion  (January 01, 2002)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 3.  The Seduction Method  (January 01, 2003)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 4.  Supreme Self Confidence With Women  (January 01, 2003)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 5.  The Dating Black Book  (September 01, 2003)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    8.7 (1 reviews)
  • 6.  The Alpha Rules  (January 01, 2007)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma•Dean Cortez  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 7.  The Alpha Manifesto  (January 01, 2007)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 8.  How to be Irresistible to Women Mastery Series  (March 20, 2007)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma•Dr. Alex Benzer•Emily Baird•James Bradley•Leil Lowndes•Marie Forleo•Marni Kinrys•Michelle Penney•Scot McKay•Sean Stephenson•Zan Perrion  | Company: 000Relationships
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 9.  Virtuosity  (August 20, 2007)
    Authors: Alex Allman•Carlos Xuma•David Wygant•Marie Forleo•Playboy (Stephen Nash)•Scot McKay•Thundercat (Joseph Matthews)•Zan Perrion  | Company: X & Y Communications
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 10.  Instant Approaching Secrets  (October 30, 2007)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma•David Kwan•Simon Heong  | Company: Instant Dating Resources
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 11.  The Alpha Lifestyle Program  (November 11, 2007)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 12.  Power Social Skills  (December 01, 2007)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    9.7 (2 reviews)
  • 13.  Get a Girlfriend Fast  (January 01, 2008)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    5.4
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 14.  Master the Game CD 3: Carlos Xuma  (January 01, 2008)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Stylelife Academy
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 15.  Badass Body Language  (January 01, 2008)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 16.  How To Talk To Women Program  (January 01, 2008)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 17.  How To Approach and Flirt With Women  (January 01, 2008)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 18.  Approach Women Now  (February 01, 2008)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 19.  Alpha Immersion  (October 01, 2008)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 20.  Approach Women 2: Real Alpha Daygame  (October 01, 2008)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 21.  Infield Insider Vault Episode 11  (October 01, 2008)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Mehow Inc
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 22.  Secrets of the Alpha Man  (January 01, 2009)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    9.0 (1 reviews)
  • 23.  How to Instantly Attract Any Woman  (January 01, 2009)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma•Cucan Pemo•David Kwan•Elena Petrova•Giuseppe Notte•Marius•Mark Geiger•Mark J Ryan•Matt Carbone•Rion Williams•Simon Heong•Tony Clink•Will Hicks  | Company: Instant Dating Resources
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 24.  Alpha Masculinity  (January 01, 2009)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 25.  The Online Mentorship Program  (January 01, 2009)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Win With Women
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 26.  Date Mentors Program  (January 01, 2009)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 27.  Advanced Coaching Program  (January 01, 2009)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 28.  Ultimate Inner Game  (January 15, 2009)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 29.  The Social Training Lab  (October 28, 2009)
    Authors: Bobby Rio•Braddock•Carlos Xuma•Jon Sinn (Jonathan Lee)•Kezia Noble•Mark Manson (Entropy)•Nick Savoy (Nicholas Benedict)•Paul Janka•Rob Judge•Ryan DRH•Sixty (Chris Andersen)•Tyler Tray  | Company: TSBMag
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 30.  The Simple Inner Game System  (November 02, 2009)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Win With Women
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 31.  Alpha Sexual Power  (November 09, 2009)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 32.  The Bad Boy Formula  (January 01, 2010)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    6.7 (4 reviews)
  • 33.  Conversation Master Class  (January 01, 2010)
    Authors: Alex Coulson•Carlos Xuma•Jerry Tran (The Asian Playboy)•Jon Sinn (Jonathan Lee)  | Company: Succeed At Dating
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 34.  The Powerful Man Teleseminar  (January 01, 2010)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma•Christian Hudson•Dan Ardebili•Daniel Vitalis•David Coleman•David Wygant•Dr. Alex Benzer•Robert Ruffo•Ross Jeffries  | Company: Listen Act Attract
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 35.  Real World Rapport  (January 01, 2010)
    Authors: BadBoy•Brent Smith•Carlos Xuma•Daniel Johnson•Dave M•Grant Adams•Sean Stephenson•Zan Perrion  | Company: PickUp 101 (Art of Attraction)
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    0.0
     
    8.7 (1 reviews)
  • 36.  Inner Game Blueprint Program  (June 01, 2010)
    Authors: Alex Coulson•Carlos Xuma•Colin Dubb•Jim Dalton•Mehow•Moxie•Ross Jeffries  | Company: Succeed At Dating
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 37.  The Calling Women and Texting Women Program  (August 10, 2010)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Win With Women
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 38.  Ultimate Calling Women & Texting Women System  (August 10, 2010)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 39.  Beyond Seduction: 3 Days to Mastering Confidence and Techniques with Women  (October 22, 2010)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma•Jon Sinn (Jonathan Lee)  | Company: Sinns of Attraction
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 40.  The Guru Black Book  (October 29, 2010)
    Authors: Action Jackson•Adam Lyons (AFC Adam)•Alex Coulson•Bill Preston•Bobby Rio•Brad Jackson•Brent Smith•Carlos Xuma•Christian Hudson•David Wygant•Dean Cortez•DJ Fuji•Gambler (Richard La Ruina)•John Alanis•Jon Sinn (Jonathan Lee)•Jordan Harbinger•Julian Foxx•Kezia Noble•Lance Mason•Mark Manson (Entropy)•Marni Kinrys•Nick Quick•Playboy (Stephen Nash)•Scot McKay•Vin DiCarlo•Yad  | Company: The Guru Black Book
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 41.  Attraction Master Class Tour 2010 (Sydney)  (November 16, 2010)
    Authors: Alex (Art of Suave)•Alex Coulson•BadBoy•Carlos Xuma•James Marshall•LoGun (Attraction Institute)•Mandosa•Matt K (Vin DiCarlo)•RedpoleQ•Vince Kelvin (Hollywood)  | Company: Get Hitched
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 42.  Master The Game Pro System  (January 01, 2011)
    Authors: Blake Richards (In10se/ Two Timer)•Brent Smith (Brent)•Carlos Xuma•David Shade•Hypnotica•Juggler (Wayne Elise)•Mystery (Erik von Markovik)•Ross Jeffries•Style (Neil Strauss)•Zan Perrion  | Company: Stylelife Academy
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 43.  The Girlfriend Training Program  (January 07, 2011)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)
  • 44.  The Lust Response  (January 01, 2014)
    Authors: Carlos Xuma  | Company: Dating Dynamics
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    0.0
     
    0.0 (0 reviews)

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