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Dating Coaching Bootcamps
- 1-on-1 Personal Coaching
$3,495.00
Release / Launch Date:
January 01, 2003
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Zagreb (Croatia)
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Summary: A one-on-one training program tailored to your needs, focusing on the areas that needs improvement and teaching you the skills at the pace you are able to absorb them to become good with women.
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A 3-day one-on-one training
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I Could Finally Get on with the Rest of My Life
Instructor(s) for Coaching:
BadBoy
Date Program Took Place:
January 01, 2006
My background is the usual AFC horror story. I was Mr Nice Guy at university and girls could see me coming a mile away. Result: 15 years of marriage and a slow road to spiritual suicide (despite her being a great woman). I knew something wasn't right from the start. I felt like a man and wanted to be a man but I was totally a victim of social programming and had been turned into a eunuch. It took me 15 years to grow my balls back and leave. That was
6 years ago - however, I had much to learn and no one around to teach me. I was completely clueless. Girls around me were into me when I was just being natural but as soon as I wanted to make a move it was back into Mr Nice Guy and instant turn-off for them. After another LTR that lasted 2 years I discovered speed dating. I thought there must be a way to systematically improve my seduction skills so I went out to get as much experience as possible. I went on about 300 speed dates over a year and tried to learn everything I could about dating. I even maintained a database on who was who, who I was seeing when, what I did right, what I did wrong and so on.
This was good and my skills improved significantly to the point where there was no shortage of women but very few if any of them turned me on. This makes sense right? If you are a HB 8+, chances are you don't need to go speed dating to find a date! I wanted to be able to get the hot girls that I could see all around me in this country. I even started experimenting with direct approach before I even knew such a thing existed (with good results but I didn't persist - social programming is a tough thing to crack - I felt too awkward doing it) . Then I came across an article on The Game and had to get hold of a copy. Next thing I know, I discover the community and my eyes lit up. There are guys out there doing this?
As soon as I found out about the Badboy workshops, I knew they were for me.
It wasn't a question of indirect versus direct - they just had a natural appeal. It sounded like so much fun that even if you didn't get the girl, you would still end up having a blast. So I signed up for the earliest one I could make, and before I knew it, the time had flown by and I was on my way to Amsterdam for the sole purpose of taking this workshop. Yes I was scared - reading about something doesn't prepare you for the reality - but I since learned from Badboy that it wasn't fear - it was adrenalin. He was right.
The Aftermath
Seeing BB in action was worth it. I think the most important thing I learned on the workshop was when BB said that it's all about controlling the frame of the situation. By that I mean having complete faith and confidence in yourself and not being fazed by anything the girl says or does. Even that's not it. Maybe the best example I can think of is Don Juan de Marco. In that film, Johnny Depp's character, who is originally judged as suffering from a delusion (he thinks he's Don Juan), has such a strong frame that eventually even his psychiatrist is sucked into it. And here's the bizarre part. By having such a strong frame, you actually make your belief a reality. Sounds crazy and unbelievable - but it's true. Actually, I still haven't described it correctly. Watching BB, you can see how having the right frame can also put the girl into a trance. Reading about it is one thing. Seeing it for yourself is another.
Just an example of how powerful this stuff is. I'm sitting on a bench the day after the workshop enjoying some time in Amsterdam to myself. While I'm there I think to myself - might as well practise some alpha body language.
So I'm virtually sprawled over this bench, in the meantime talking to the guy on the bench next to me. (I talk to anyone and everyone now. In lines, on the tram, in cafes, wherever. It keeps approach anxiety at bay, I use a gazillion different natural openers for each situation and I get to practise my story-telling skills.) The next thing I know is, this HB7.5/24 sits down next to me. 5 minutes later she's sharing her joint with me. 25 minutes later she has to go but not before giving me her card. I didn't even ask for it!
Criticisms? I don't really have any. BB clearly has a product that has been honed and refined through experience. I could have wished to be pushed into more sets (I did about 45 over the entire workshop) but then I realized that the rate limiting step in this was not Badboy but me. The other criticism, which is not really a criticism is that 4 days is not enough. Yes, you pretty much get taught about 90% of the material that BB says is going to be covered but without the relevant experience, you can't make use of it. You therefore need to go, practise it, make some mistakes of your own and then get more light bulbs going off in your head. Aha! Now I know what BB is talking about. BB has been practising this for more years then there are days in the workshop. I would have liked to have gotten a kiss close but I realized that this is down to me and not BB and clearly I wasn't ready for it at my current level of development. The upshot? I think I will need to get at least a few more months of solid practice in before signing up for the Advanced Individualized Workshop.
Look. This is not a panacea. You can't expect to go in there an AFC and come out as Don Juan and Casanova rolled into one. What the whole BB experience has shown me is what is possible, how it's done and most importantly, how I can do it myself, all in a way that feels 100% natural. As with all workshops of any kind, however, once you've left the environment where someone else is imposing the external discipline, you risk falling back to where you were before. This was a big concern of mine. Now that BB has gone and the buzz has worn off, will what I've learned stick? The next day I was walking the streets of Amsterdam and bump into a fellow workshop attendee.
We go for a coffee before he catches a train back to Germany. And you know what? I realize I'm starting to think like a PUA. We walk in and I choose the table next to a 2-set. Halfway into my coffee I open up with a natural opener. I realize now that opening is really easy and the best cure for approach anxiety is action. A few minutes later we are both joining these two hotties at their table. A few minutes after that I'm reading the palm of the Russian HB8.5/17. Since then I've been visiting family in the States - not exactly the most conducive environment for an aspiring PUA (being with family, not being in Ameria that is). At one point though I couldn't resist and had to open the HB7.5/24 on the bench next to me in Minneapolis. Yep, works with American girls too. Have attraction, IOI's, building rapport and ... it's time to eject as my 3 kids and ex-wife are approaching! Having said that I can see that I've become rusty in these last few weeks. It'll be time to dust off the cobwebs again as soon as I'm back in South Africa.
Permanent and lasting change isn't going to come from attending workshops.
It's going to come from more of the same that got you in the workshop in the first place i.e. desire, discipline and not a small measure of balls. If this sounds like a lot of effort, it is. But it's also a lot of fun. That's where the life is.
I met a great bunch of guys (including my fellow students as well as workshop instructors), I had a great time, I had a life-altering experience.
BB is a great guy and you feel like he's been your friend since you were kids. All in all, I have to say (and I've checked this with myself to make sure I'm not exaggerating)...
This is the best money I've ever spent. On anything. Ever.
I don't know about the rest of you guys out there, but if I stopped to note down how much time I've spent thinking, talking and fantasizing about women I'm not having in my life, I'm sure it would consume almost half my waking hours. When I think about the amount of time, money and energy I've put into this, I feel sick. Even disgusted. What a waste! Not only does it sap your productivity but it ends up derailing your life. Ironically, I came on the workshop because I realized that there are other things in life besides women - therefore getting this sorted out meant that I could finally get on with the rest of my life. Which, after this workshop, is exactly what I intend to do.
Personal results: In 3 days I achieved approximately 25 phone numbers and a couple of kisses from about 60 cold approaches.
Some conclusions from the Badboy Workshop:
1) THIS IS NOT PAPER-FOLDING… You will not always be in your comfort zone. You will be pushed and at times you will hurt.
2) If you think you know what sarging is and you haven’t done a workshop… You don’t. Take the workshop. Attempt 20 challenging sets in a night and your attitude towards sarging is completely different. In every interaction, there is an opportunity, opportunity to change your map of reality and push the boundaries of what is possible.
3) Badboy teaches that the Anxiety in the approach is an illusion… it is the Adrenalin that is real. After 3 days, your body will have experienced so much adrenalin. You will feel tired and drained. Badboy told me that most students get sick immediately after a workshop because their bodies and minds go through such phenomenal change. We named this PWSD – Post-Workshop Stress Disorder. The is good news is: it’s not fatal, it will pass quickly and when it does, you have the option of becoming a new man.
4) This workshop is so practical! everything that you are taught works.
The Badboy style is easy to learn… MM may take 3 years… If you GENUINELY BELIEVE in the material, BB™s method can take months, maybe even weeks.
5) Badboy really knows his stuff. When you bomb out in a set, he will know exactly why you did wrong. Years in the field have given him immense calibration. He throws you into challenging yet practical sets and will give you guidance/advice throughout the set. As you have probably guessed, the guy is alpha and has an extremely strong frame; at the same time, he is still one of the boys. He will answer any question you have about seduction and ensure that you totally understand his answers. On the first day, I asked him to push me hard and I got what I asked for. I got what I asked for. I lost count of the number of times he sent me out of the seminar room and down onto the street to open a set. Before I left, we swapped numbers (Badboy was my 26th number close of the weekend!!!!); I hope to go to Croatia later this year to sarge with him and continue adding to my skills.
6) At the end of the workshop, 7 out of the 8 students had made massive improvements; the other guy had improved a lot. How could it be that we had all come so far in just 3 days? Badboy hadn’t given us new clothes, or made our bodies more buff, he didn’t give us special lines to use, he had simply opened our eyes to what is possible. Badboy calls this “Matrix Theory;� (rent the film). Society is geared towards making you view the world in a certain way. Societal pressures/constraints govern our behaviour and as a result, you miss out on countless opportunities because of the limiting beliefs in your own head. We all have an idea of what we think we can achieve with women and with life and the matrix ensures that these ideas are far removed from what is actually possible. So do you want to take the Blue Pill and carry on as normal? Or do you want to take the Red Pill and open your eyes to the world passing before your eyes.
PS I didn't take the last day of day sarging. On eof the students, 40 year old German caled Christian opened a 3 set of HB10's in a coffeeshop. He ended up kiss closing the a playboy model... This was the guy who said tat he could take to girls when they approached him but that he couldn't approach... Do you really stil need to be told to sign up for this course?
Badboy's workshop [really] rocked.
During this workshop my game improved exponentially. To the point where i began to wonder if i
actually had any game to begin with. The pace was fast and we went through a lot of stress. but
we had so much fun and my game improved to such an extent that i actually made an approach
(pretty girl at tram stop) during a break outside the classroom!
The theoretical part of the course was a complete journey through 'Direct style' Pickup. It changed
so many things about my inner game and forced me to un-learn some of the idiologies i had adopted.
The course gave me effective methods of approach, transition and seduction that proved
instantly successful. Never in my wildest dreams would i have been able to stop a pretty girl
in the street, and after just a few minutes see her laughing and touching her hair(and other attraction cues). Its phenominal!
You cross over from AFC to another world, a totally new mindset. Girls look at me now in
a different way, and me them.
If you have the balls and a firm commitment to change certain aspects of your mindset, then
this course represents the 'red pill' from the MATRIX.
If you want to be a real 'MAN' and walk the higher path of pickup - Then take the course!
Its like an Extreme Sport for the mind!
I was going to write a really long and detailed report for you guys but all I would be doing is writing much the same as all the other reviews.
Bad boy is genius, simply (simple being the operative word) Genius. I mean his method's can be learned in a day and you'd be an expert in a couple of months, simple.
There's no doubt that he will push you into sets, over and over again. There are just too many sets to recolect, I'm also writting this review now that a HB8 has just climbed off of my dick and gone home (good girl, I like my own bed).
I mean to mention some of the sets, HB7.5 (6ft tall) pushed into set, Bad boy then bought me a chair over whilst I was in set for couple of minuites, then he said palm read, then take her up stairs and all the time she didn't bat an eye lid. Then I tounge downed and number closed, also have a day two set up.
Another set I wouldn't of dreamed of opening were two girls, sun bathing in Leicster square, one was a Hungarian model, I walked over, sat down, after being in set for 10 minuites I instant dated, number, e-mail and kiss closed and I didn't even ask for her number, she was so into the direct game!
I also street sarged a HB9 Arabic type girl, I isolated her on the street, then Bad boy came over and said to her that I am an international playboy and I WOULD seduce her, she then said that she had a boyfriend and Badboy laughed and said that wont matter... lol. I ran game and TOLD her that we were going for a drink, I walked back to her friend (that my wing was entertaining) hand in hand and we decided to go to a bar, but half way there disaster stuck and her huge boyfriend turned up (now I can handle myself but I really didn't fancy tangling with this monster, he stormed off and she nearly started crying and ran off after him (I'm feeling a tiny bit guilty here but it passes). Five minuites later I walk off to get some ciggerettes and walk back round the corner with a girl on each arm and me and the boys take them to all bar one.
Guys I want you to all try something, go up to a girl you like and say, hell your beautiful, tell me about yourself! it's as easy as that...
I opened about 70 sets and I fully recommend anyone to take this workshop, I already had game but it's all changed now, oh and you really can approach from behind, I did it about 10 times and didn't get blown out once!! infact I tounge downed a girl that I approached from behind...
A big portion of the seminars was dedicated to practical exercises aimed at bringing out peoples spontaneity, word association, making stories out of one word, all really useful and exercises me and my friend are now doing daily. Other exercises worked on logistics of pickup, the way to approach, sit down, how to lead girls. All the group would repeat an exercise until they'd got it spot on. Throughout all this the environment is very relaxed, theres a limited amount of mistakes a guy can make, and badboy shows how to correct them all.
Of course the workshop main event is the sarging. At the start of the workshop I was nervous as shit with girls, I'd get AA and when I did approach, I'd be so unrelaxed that I'd eject after a few minutes. The sarging sessions have completely changed that. When you're with two instructors and nine other students, it's very hard to NOT approach, because of the high energy levels, and social pressure. Plus you buzzing from having learned a lot of new information in the seminars. By the second and third day many people seemed to be bursting to start sarging sets! Personally I approached so many sets that it completely changed my mindset when it comes to girls. I've realised that for the first couple of sets I always a little AA, but once I get past that, I'm in the zone and girls love me. If anyone has any kind of problems applying pickup to real life, I'd recommend these workshops so much. The attitude taught, along with the intense sarging are the perfect way to start along the road towards being great with women.
Just to re-emphasize the effect these workshops can have, let me just tell you about how they've changed me. At the first seminar, I was getting nervous and shy just introducing myself to ten guys. On the final day, I was approaching and number closing sets sitting in cafes, mixed sets in leicester square park.. and yesterday I even sarged my optician!! The matrix reference is spot on, when I went back home I did feel like Neo seeing the matrix for the first time. Instead of hundreds of people I'd never dare approach, I now see potential sets, places good for isolation, and nobody that I'm too scared to approach.
When I signed up for the workshop I had no idea what to expect, all of the reviews I read were good so I expected a good experience. Well in no way was I disappointed. The workshop was [REALLY] AMAZING!!!
Anyone looking to take a pick-up workshop I fully recommend Badboy the guy is a genius everything about the workshop kicked ass, everything is tried and tested. There are many methods of pick-up out there but I’m glad this was the workshop I paid for the method is one which I have no doubt I can learn quickly and be good at.
If you want to be a man do a Badboy workshop.
Note: In no way am I affiliated with Badboy lifestyle I was a paying customer who wanted to share his experience.
Let me say it plainly, I wasn't much good less than a year ago. I got laid every now and then, but mostly through social circle and luck. Then I discovered the game and started to improve, and after correcting basic some mistakes I started applyiing indirect Mystery Method. Some results followed, but I have to admit that my rapport has always been very damn good in the first place, so it was a matter of improving the rest so that the girl would actually want rapport with me.
I read about Badboy and I decided I needed a workshop not to see it done properly, but to see that I could do it. Being european and liking european girls, it was a logical choice.
Aftermath:
I won't say I was a total AFC when I started this workshop. But I progressed a lot in leading and aproaching, and got rid of the last bit of my anxiety. My confort zone still exists, but the little anxiety I had left is gone.
For me this workshop progressed my game. But you have to put your effort.
Lastly...I had a blast!
In 2004 i decided to took a WS with BB since i heard he teach alpha game, with bodylanguage and attitude, something i wanted to be instaed pf stuff i had to do like memorizing tons of routines and scripts.
Back at that time RSD was on the spot and i almost got into their ws, but then i decided to attend a BB ws instaed.
Now after 3 years i am even more glad i took that decision.
What i learned made all the difference in real life.
That why BB ws will always stands out from the other 'seduction' ws.
The seduction model he use is simple and will set the foundations of your skills. I highly respect models like the one Mystery use, the seduction model he made up is really deep, but is best suited for logical thinkers, in my humble opinion. I'm not like this, i live for my emotions. I wanted to know intuitively how to game, instaed of thinking too much.
If you want to go from point A to B, sure you can take the longer route, but why you would do that, if you can have a shortcut? And BB IS a shortcut on your path to success..
Also after getting the basic stuff, you can improve a lot the quality of your life.
He put a lot of emphasis on lifestyle. If you are serious about learing, you will improve your life a lot.
If i see an attractive girl, now i have a fair chance to get her.
Sometime i'll win her, sometime i don't.
But at least i have to power to chose.
I know what to say to her, how to attract her, how get a date and how to escalate and close.
I'll never feel powerless in front of a woman again.
He didn't really taught me how to seduce girls.
He taugh me how to be a MAN. How to have the lifestyle i wanted. Big difference. Isn't?
Then it was up to me to archive that.
You need to move your ass and get into the field in order to improve those skills and get better and better.
BB will show you how those skills would look like once you mastered them, and how to get them, but after the WS is up to you.
Will you put the effort and do the exercises knowing that your life will totally change? I am sure you will, mine changed!
I am now a different kind of person compared to what i used to be and those changes are evident.
I took Badboy's workshop. I knew about the community and even had his CD's but still wasn't breaking the surface. I could tell there was something powerful going on in those CD's and on the forums but I wanted to see this in action. Before I went I read as many reviews of this workshop as I could and virtually all of them had something in common- an amazing experience. I got even more than I expected.
Now, my enjoyment of life in general is hugely improved. My entire perspective on life has changed completely. I am working hard to make sure that I am improving. I am much, much more relaxed from day to day than before. Forget about the girls, I just feel better. The other morning I woke up smiling, ready to seize theday. I can think of very, very few people that I know that can say the same thing. When I wake up now I have no hangover to deal with, no regrets, just a day of opportunities for me.
I recently took a one day intruction with Badboy on daygame and thought I'd post a review here as well, since to the best of my knowledge, Badboylifestyles seems to be an affiliate company of some sort. I hope that's ok.
Let me begin by telling a little about myself....
I discovered the community, like many other guys, through Neil Strauss' book. However, I didn't start really practicing the art until many months later when I took my first bootcamp with RSD.
Although, I learned a lot and got my first real results after taking their program, I still had a lot of issues with daygame. I felt very 'on stage' when approaching strangers outside of a naturally social environment and moving sets were especially difficult. Daytime was truly not something I felt comfortable.
After taking one-on-one instruction with Badboy himself, that has all changed. Moving sets are actually pretty easy if you know the right way to get them to stop. I’m also much more at ease gaming during the daytime and actually find it easier to talk when there is no loud music and flashing lights everywhere.
When the workshop began, Badboy had me do an improv exercise for generating spontaneous openers on the spot. We also worked on some sub-communication related issues such as body language, eye contact, and ran a few practice drills before heading out.
After some more talk on pick up theory, we drove over to Beverly Center in Hollywood, where I put the knowledge he gave me into practice. The drills he had me do started out small, such as stopping a moving set and asking an opinion, but then got progressively harder. By the end of the day, I was confidently approaching moving and seated sets and was going direct on them within minutes. To my surprise the girls actually enjoyed me telling them that I stopped them, because I thought they were 'sexy†and I gained a totally new perspective on what’s possible when you use direct game.
My only regret at the end of the day was that I had only signed up for one session with Badboy and wasn’t going to have him around with me when I go out in the future.
In short, I would strongly recommend taking a workshop with Badboy to just about any guy interested in getting this part of his life handled. He’s a great teacher and will help you quickly take your game to the next level
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