Attraction Isn't A Choice

Table of Contents/ List of Topics Covered:
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction
Part 1: Attraction Isn’t A Choice

Chapter 1: Attraction Isn’t A Choice
An Open Letter From A Lonely, Beautiful Woman To Herself
Meeting Women Isn’t Magic
The Power Of Attraction
Attraction Is Selfish
Men, Women, And Attraction
My Concept Of Attraction
An Exercise To Help You Start Thinking Differently
My Quick Take On Relationships
From The Mailbag
Following Common Social Courtesy Is Bad For Attraction
Filters And Amplifiers
Women Use Clues To Generalize
Do You Get It Or Not?
From The Mailbag

Chapter 2: Preparing for Change
YOU CAN be Successful with Women
It Doesn’t Work the Way You Think It Does
Living In an Ideal World
The Nice Guy’s ‘Real-Self’ is ‘Real Manipulation’
You Meet Her Persona First
We Think Women Are Attracted the Same Way We Are
Elusive Obvious: What They Actually Want Is Already In You
REMEMBER… It’s OK to Be a Man
Limiting Beliefs And Change
Fear of Failure and Not Taking Action
Fearing Failure on the Approach
Fearing the Unknown.
Abundance and Scarcity
Taking Rejection Personally
Competing With Other Guys
Infinite Justice
Fear And The Kiss Test
The Sex Obligation
Preparing for Change: Positive Mindsets Bring Improvement
Lots of Preparation for a Few Key Moments
You CAN “Get It”
Default Behavior vs. Taking Charge

Speed of Implementation
Updating Patterns
Updating Your Pattern for Talking to Attractive Women
Fear
Expecting Instant Gratification
Natural Variation And Success Patterns
Avoiding
Decision Leadership

Chapter 3: The Evolution and Biology of Attraction

3.1 HOW ATTRACTION CAN BE ILLOGICAL
The Triune Brain
Internal Mental Power Struggles
Attraction As A Complex “Chemical Reaction”

3.2 WHY ATTRACTION IS ILLOGICAL & WHAT DOES ATTRACT WOMEN
Replicators
The “Mating Mind”
The Economics of Sex
The ‘Keep-Him’ Strategy
Why Women Cheat
Competition in Sexual Evolution
Attraction, at Last

3.3 ATTRACTIVE MEN
Ethology and the Study of Animals
You Must Trigger The Attraction
Tastes Good, Not Good For You
The Animal Inside
The Pre-Programmed Man Archetype Homing Mechanism

3.4 LET GO OF EVOLUTIONARY HANG-UPS
We Can Change and Reprogram Ourselves
Competition
Remembering and Fearing Failures Over Successes
Part 2: Creating Attraction.
Chapter 4: The Hidden Languages Of Attraction
Secret Languages And “The Matrix”
Finding Hidden Patterns
Unspoken Languages
The Universal Language
The Language of Secret Societies
The Series of Key Languages and How to Approach Them
Body Language
Posture
…Slow and Calculated Movements and Gestures
The Most Powerful Secret Language: Innate Body Language

The Hidden Language of Eye Contact
Communicating with Tone of Voice
The Secret Language of Cocky Comedy
You Can’t Always Spell It Out For Her
The Tension and Energy of Two Magnets Wrapped by a Rubber Band
The Secret Language of Sex
The Secret Language of Flirting and Sexual Chemistry
The Usual And The Unusual
The Strength To Be Yourself
The Hidden Language of Self-Confidence
You Don’t Have to Agree with Rejection
Beliefs to Express Through Hidden Languages
Chapter 5: Building Attraction
Social Proof
The Value of Social Proof
Connecting to Social Proof
Becoming an Addiction
The Obsession Formula
Playing Hard to Get
Two Steps Forward, One Step Back
Give Her Just a Taste
Give Her the Gift of Missing You

Chapter 6: Attitude and Composur
The Attitude
Why Women Date Bartenders and Other Players
The Attitude Is Behind the Words
James Bond Never Whines
Be the Leader
Being Focused on your Goals is Attractive
Do but Don’t Care
James Bond Doesn’t Get Upset
Dealing with Tests and Challenges
James Bond Doesn’t Rush Things
The Attitude Has Mystery, Tension
Women in Demand are Demanding
The Attitude May Sometimes Be a Burden
Summary of the Attitude

Chapter 7: Most Guys Do Exactly the Wrong Thing When They Date
Attractive Women
The Way Of The Wuss
Why This Pattern Happens the Way It Does
Why Women Run Once the Submissive “Nice Guy” Appears
Mistaking Affection for Attraction
Adapting Wuss Behavior Into Attractive Behavior

Chapter 8: Don’t Bore Her!
Boring Men Aren’t Attractive
Why Wusses Bore Women
Don’t Be Predictable
Be Different Instead
To Get From Affection to Attraction, Play Hard To Get
Avoid Boring Conversation
So What Do You Say?
Humor Technique: Fake Drama
Responding Correctly to Real Drama From a Woman
Reframe Ass Kissers
Talk About Sex
Read Clues
Be Mysterious

Chapter 9: Cocky Comedy In Detail
Cocky Comedy
What Cocky Comedy Communicates
Why Does Cocky Comedy Attract Women?
It’s Cocky BALANCED With Comedy
How to Create Cocky Comedy
Examples Of Cocky Comedy
My Personal Favorite Cocky Comedy Standards
Using Cocky Comedy To Beat Tests
Exercise: Cocky Comedy
Remember That Cocky Comedy Is Desired When Unacknowledged
Don’t Cave In and Collapse—Continue Building with Cocky Comedy
Overdoing It
Balancing Ball Busting With Regular Conversation
Flirting
Flirt From The Very Start
An Example
Practicing
From The Mailbag

Chapter 10: Frequently Asked Questions
I Just Got My First Email Address... What Do I Do Now?”
How Long Should I Wait?
What Should I Do If She Doesn’t Call Back?
Should I Take Her Out To Dinner?
I Have This Girl That's Been A Friend For 47 Years… How Do I Get Her To Feel Attracted To
Me?
How Do I Handle Competition From Other Guys?
Should I Date More Than One Woman?
"How Do I Come Off As The Most Romantic Guy In The World, But Only Have Chicks Be
Interested In Me For Short Term Sex?
The End